How do I tell my dad that I never learned to talk to women?

[Thanatos777]

39 straight male... Never dated... Got rejected from 16 - 23 then I decided to take on interests that were Achievable (music, the occult, alchemy, physics, philosophy, graphic design etc.) any who... Last time my dad took me and my bro out to lunch he asked about when I'm getting married... I guess that's when it hit me... I never got around to learning to deal with women... Im not upset or sulky about it.. I guess I don't know what to tell him... Im into women... Just not enough to rewire my plasticity and get my self esteem tampered with... I already kind of feel awkward around them... And don't really need the extra stress..

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry man. It must be lonely. I wish I could just give some magic pill but maybe just tell your dad the truth. The brutal honest truth.

[Thanatos777]

I'm numb to it... It only bothers me when I'm reminded... Usually by the bozos who have to flaunt the women they get to prove that their straight lol (I swear that's what some of those lames look like their doing)

[Cheyannea]

Try not putting so much value in it. Your relationship status isn’t your father’s business. You’re a grown man just tell him you have no interest in it.

[Nikki1989]

You learn by talking to them. Talk to them as much as you can.

[Thanatos777]

I don't really do the friend zone... And when I was trying with them I was never their type or they would mysteriously have a boyfriend lol.. Im not blessed with handsome looks... So why contaminate the gene pool... I appreciate the concern and effort... I just need a way to tell my dad...

[boobliker]

do you have to tell him, or can you just leave it and let him think you do or can?

[Thanatos777]

That's true... Your right it doesn't come up often

[Iron_Man]

Learn to talk to women have courage

[Thanatos777]

When I had it I wasn't their type... I don't have the mental health for it like before

[Iron_Man]

Then try Christian mingles, but you’re still gonna have to meet her in person

[Thanatos777]

I'm not a Christian... No offense to anyone who is