How do I talk to men without acting fake or changing who I am?

[Anonymous]

Is there any secrets how you should talk with men?
Like you should do certain voice and act stupid or something? Be positive and kind? I don’t know how to do it.
And I know that you shouldn’t talk about your past etc, it’s hard for me cause I’m open book, and also I’m super negative.

[Orion84]

Just be yourself, really.

Guys can usually tell when someone is putting on an act, and we're not fans of that. We just want to see the real you, that's all. Assuming talking actually leads somewhere, you wouldn't be able to keep up the act, anyway, so be genuine right out of the gate.

Just be polite and sincere. We're not difficult to talk to, and we usually enjoy talking to a woman, as long as she's communicative, and responsive. Ask us about ourselves, show interest, and tell us about yourself, too. We hate carrying the entire conversation, so try to be comfortable with the back and forth.

Guys aren't a big mystery; we're pretty simple, and we enjoy a good coversation.

[Anonymous]

Key thing. If you’re feminine men will pick up on that. Men love feminine women. I don’t mean act either. Just say hello. Most men, unlike a lot of women are open to a conversation. Say hello, how you doing. Then go from there. Men don’t want boss babes, we don’t want girls w high mileage on their wheels. The only time that really doesn’t matter is if we’re just looking to smash. If I’m being really honest a lot of men don’t care much about her career or her education. Sounds mean, but for one most women aren’t going to pay for a majority of things even if she makes more so no it doesn’t matter to us. Understand that you making a lot of money doesn’t make you more attractive. We prefer women who have no real social media following. Especially shy women. We don’t like to argue. So if you’re argumentative all the time it’s a no go. We don’t like masculine women. Strong independent women are going to remain just that. Strong and independent.

[Nikki1989]

Do the opposite of what the anon said on here. Men are generally the worst people to give advice on this topic.

[Hiker_011]

I think being positive and kind is a good idea when communicating with anyone. It's attractive when people are happy, confident, and they love themselves and others. Certain people may be drawn to negativity, but how happy can unhappy people really be together.

[Anonymous]

I wish I could tell you. I hate pretending to be someone I'm not, because it seems counterproductive to finding a compatible partner.

[Danny_dan92]

Being you

[dudeinohio]

Be yourself