Why am I able to talk to other men just fine, but not my crush?

[Anonymous]

I really like this boy at the moment and he likes me as well. I didn't reject him but I said that I wasn't exactly ready for a relationship, I was surprised when he took it really well and wished me well. He's still extremely kind and to be honest very hot. I never really talk to him but I would try to make him jealous by talking to other boys but to be honest these boys don't make me feel anything. I remember once I was at a shop and I talked was able to talk to this other boy but it kinda back fired and he went ahead and talked to like 2 other girls and it felt really bad for me. I would also be nervous around his proximity, yes I do preen and adjust my clothing near him, I don't know why I'm able to talk to other boys just fine but not him? I just can't muster up the courage to converse.

[Texaskid1]

You get nervous around him because you are attracted to him and so you are stumped for words. You want him but at the same time you get so flustered in his presence that you find it hard to function and so just find it easier to stay away from him. You have no issues talking with other guys because you are not into them.

When I was in college back in the day there was a very cute classmate that I had a huge crush on. I noticed that she always made eyes with me so I took it as her way of flirting. Needless to say I was on cloud 9 and it felt so good to be attracted to someone who was also attracted to me ( before that it was always a one sided issue as I had always fallen to unrecoprocated love... 💔 . ) I eventually mustered up the courage to speak to her thinking it would be an easy pick up since she was sending me so many obvious signs and all that was needed was come courage on my part. Anyhow, when I went to talk to her she was curt , dismissive... and she walked away from the conversation with out even saying goodbye. I figured it was a bad day for her... whatever. a few days later she starts up with the eye contact and the smiling do I wait for about 2 weeks and try to talk to her again. Like the last time she was curt and dismissive.

During the school year I tried a few more times to talk to her but she was always dismissive of me yet she would always stare at me , check me out , make eyes with me. I figured she was playing some kind is sick mind game. I stopped trying after a while due to frustration.

Years later I found out she had a huge crush on me but she would get so nervous that she would freak out and just leave. To this day I will sometimes wonder what could of been.

This guy might like you back but how does he perceive you? You may have to be more forward because you never know...

[Asker]

How did you find out she had a crush on you? Do you think it's a maturity thing and just takes time?

[Texaskid1]

A mutual friend that I ran into like 10 years after we graduated from college.

[Guy13]

"These boys do not make me feel". You are hallucinogenic and/or Female.

[irmaavila301]

I’m the same way. I get shy around guys I am attracted to, but it’s because I am very insecure.

[Asker]

Do you tend to ignore him and try not to talk to him but look at him when he isn't looking and fidget near him like hair touching?

[irmaavila301]

No, I just smile and wait for him to make a move if he is interested.

[qusai_jo]

stress be relaxed or take a shot before talking with him

[RuthlessAggression]

because you're a pleyer

[RuthlessAggression]

player*

[Asker]

Wdym I'm a player I haven't dated in a long time.

[RuthlessAggression]

"guys"

[AlexM007]

Nervs