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I’m noticing so much with guys they just say hi to me and check me out a lot. I’ll try to carry a light friendly conversation and they’ll like smile and nod and then say they have to go! Lol.
I am told I’m really pretty and I’ve done some modeling so I don't know if they’re just intimidated or something. My friend told me their dickks probably get hard when they talk to me. Lol. But I don't know. I’m not coming onto the guys in a creepy sexy way. I’m just being normal and friendly and they don’t continue the conversation. Before all this I have caught them checking me out and they initiated some small talk and saying hi to me. I see them with others and they seem relaxed and will converse more openly.
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Why don’t men seem to want to have conversations with me (that I meet in person)? I’ll say something light and casual and they are awkward about it?
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You just said you have done modeling, they are probably scared to talk to you. They obviously assume you are way out of their league.
Then why do they say hi and comment randomly on stuff when we see each other?
Trying to attempt probably but the nerves get to them. If you are model I probably not be able to say hi to you myself.
I don’t look like a runway model though. I’m just like tall and a size 4, long brownish red hair, pale. I’m not like a swimsuit model. I doubt guys even think I look like a model tbh lol
Well then I'm thinking you are modest which I truly appreciate. You said you have done it so I'm guessing you are extremely attractive. One negative of being attractive is many, not all, guys are intimidated by your looks.
I’m half Russian also so I dress kinda fancy.
I don't know it’s hard to envision how others see you. I know I’m a catch but I’m only asked out on dating apps not really in person meets/interactions.
Makes sense to me, guys may take the chance online but in person it's harder because rejection sucks and when you are super attractive people assume you have to be taken. Online dating I know you are single.
What should I do? There’s a guy I like and sometimes we have small talk and he looks at me a lot but hasn’t even asked my name…lol 😂
Ask his name, you can also ask if he is single. That is a way to show you are interested and give him a shot to ask you out.
If a guy says hi to you a lot and sometimes has small talk, is happy to see you, is this usually because they’re interested?
I’m never sure if it’s friendly or flirty.
Honestly depends on the guy but him saying it a lot I think is usually a good sign. It would be if it was me.
It feels too familiar to do that with someone when you know nothing about them. He doesn’t know my name. Or maybe he has low key stalked me and already knows.
Well maybe he doesn't like you yet but he is most likely attracted to you, I bet he is interested enough to know he wants to get to know you.
Well it’s been like a month of random hi’s and chats and he hasn’t asked my name or for my number or a date. I don’t think he’s into me. I’ll move on.
That is up to you but I'm betting honestly that he is, probably either assumes you are taken, assumes he has no short or shy or something. You be amazed how often girls assume guys are not interested when they are.
I think if he was interested he’d talk more to me. He doesn’t ask me questions.
Ok again your choice but I'm telling you it's very possible you are wrong. I almost never show "signs" I'm interested when I am.
I read somewhere that a guy does things like this when he sees the girl as a placeholder.
Maybe some guys yes I won't lie but I'm telling you there are so many more that are not like that. You have no many times I should have made a move and a girl decided I had zero interest when I did. This happens all the time for many guys.
This is a summary of what’s been happening especially with the guy I mentioned:
He turned around to look at me twice, couple different times
Started talking to me at the water bottle station just light talk
Next time I saw him I waved and smiled at him and simultaneously dropped my phone and he smiled and said “it didn’t break did it?” Lol
Once he was walking toward me smiling and I smiled and waved and he like turned around and looked like he hid out of my view.
Saw him at the elevator and we talked briefly (small talk). He was facing me with his body the whole time and asked how I’m doing.
Next day we walked past each other said hi
Today We saw each other and said hi
And that’s it
I'm positive he's into you, I could be wrong don't get me wrong but I'm pretty confident that he's into you. He's braver than me but he's probably still scared to ask you out or he's playing it slow because he doesn't want to look like a creep and move on you too fast.
That’s reassuring. I just don’t want to be stuck in this phase forever lol. I’ll ask him his name next time I see him. We also live in the same building so it’s a high risk situation to hit on someone.
Once I had a guy at the gym mumble ”wow she’s pretty” as I walked past and be approached me and said the most awkward thing about something I was holding LOL and walked away mid sentence.
Lol it's kinda sad that happens. Dating is harder than ever before. The bad have ruined it for the good honestly. So many guys are scared to death to make a move that some of us come off as awkward when we really are not. Sadly I probably be the guy that said something awkward and you walk away from me when I'm really not that awkward weird guy. Just ask him his name like you said maybe take the chance and just ask if he is single too. It will probably give him the push if he is interested like I believe he is
Makes sense. But what if he’s taking other girls on actual dates? That’s what makes me feel bad about this all.
In today's world that is definitely possible sadly. It's pretty normal to be dating multiple people at once. I'm not a fan myself I don't even like chatting to two girls at once that I'm interested in. But many are not like me so sorry but it's possible.
Yeah I feel bad like what if he has the confidence to ask out other women (specially if he’s on apps) but just doesn’t want to ask me out and is leaving me around as an option last resort.
I doubt it's a last resort but I understand that fear. If you are as attractive as I think you are he maybe more nervous and less sure about asking you out than others.
Yeah not to sound conceited but I never see guys who I’ve talked to on dates with someone more physically attractive.
Yea if that is true that is why you don't get asked out as much the more attractive you are the more scared and cautious guys will be to ask you out. I know my weaknesses I probably never even approach you myself. That is my problem but it just using it to tell you many are probably similar just maybe on a lesser degree than me.
This sounds depressing but I’ve gotten to a point where I think guys just think I’m nice to look at but don’t want anything deeper with me.
I'm sorry I didn't mean to depress you I'm just being honest. And that isn't true for everyone. Many guys want you more than just your looks. Looks pull guys in but for many your personality is what keeps them around. Again don't let them not making a move as fast as you want mean they don't like you personally, he maybe just nervous to make that move. I know I don't know you but I want you to find your someone, everyone deserves their someone.
they aren't that interested in u ig
Are you meeting them one on one or in a group?
Just one on one. They’ll say hi or something so I’m nice back and the conversations even if friendly go nowhere. Lol.
If the conversation goes nowhere it’s likely the guys are just saying hi to be nice or polite. Don’t take offense, I’m sure eventually someone will be attracted to you and wanna have a longer conversation. Have you asked for their number?