Why do guys always ghost me after sex?

[Anonymous]

Why? The sex is good and they liked me and I like them and we say we are looking for a casual consistent hook up then they ghost me. How come? This never happened to me before. They always talked to me after sex and asked to meet again.

[Anonymous]

Some people miss the point, I think. So you're looking at having a casual partner that you occasionally hook up with and have some fun, right? This isn't serious, it's not a real relationship.

That said. Some of these guys might have liked the sex but it can be hard to get a guy to do what he likes at the best of times. There's a lot of pressure in maintaining a casual relationship and he just might have decided that it wasn't what he wanted.

That said. If it were me and we had just hooked up, had some fun, etc. and I came to the conclusion that I was happier just doing my own thing. I'd at least tell you what's up. I get it. It's frustrating and you might even start to think if it's you.

It's not you. It's them. Don't let it get to you. Some folks will judge you but you're not doing anything wrong. Those guys are in the wrong for not explaining themselves. Though they probably also feel that they have no reason to explain anything to someone they're not serious about. It's a really shitty mentality.

[impalabill77]

They only want one thing and once they get it. He probably didn't like it and didn't want it anymore. Not all guys are like that. What kind of guy do you go for?

[DishLady]

You're giving it up too soon, kid. They have what they want so they leave the shop... Sure they talk RIGHT after sex... what are they supposed to do, jump out the window/door with their fun bits hanging? They'll at least talk to you till they can get away from you... But then ghosting is certainly a thing to expect, especially if you're not choosing the guys wisely...

[Anonymous]

So you both agrees it is casual... and you are now complaining it's nothing more.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Perhaps you should be more choosy in your selection. 'Forewarned is forearmed' as the saying goes.

[sifat10shahriar]

Cz after orgasm they have post nut clarity. They feel guilty of fucking you and they leave

[Anonymous]

Sex is mediocre?
Just spitballing.