Hi guys, I'm 29 years old, and really struggling to find a partner. I have been single for over 3 years. I do go on a lot of dates, but all of them go like this: "We chat for a few weeks or months online ( Tinder or Bumble). He asks me out, we go for dinner or drinks (usually). After our date he wants to either go home with me or take me over to his place. I politely refuse his offer, and say "maybe next time". At this point, he either tries to rape me, calls me nasty names, or just accepts that I won't sleep with him on the first date. The next day he has ghosted me, and I never hear from him again. Then I go on another first date, and the same situation happens. I'm made to feel a sense of urgency, it's like they're telling me "sleep with me right now, or lose me forever!" I get told that I only have chance in my life to sleep with him, that that is all that I'm worth, that I'm worth not much else. Why does that keep happening to me?
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