What does a man mean when he says "I like to lead"?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

Means he’s a man… often in a good way.


Think of it this way… in gym class you’re doing the dance unit. But it’s high school so there no coed dance unit… which means two girls have to dance and one of the girls has to lead.


But isn’t the dance nicer when you’re with somebody you have feelings for… and if he knows the dance and can lead you, it’s quite beautiful because you’re then free to just be your true feminine self. (Not the mom or working girl or any other thing under the sun… just a woman, enjoying that dance.)


Now mind you… some guys say the lead thing bc they’re modern-day possessive cave dwellers, but some are really just trying to take the lead and be your man.

[Nikki1989]

He has control issues. Prepare for a bumpy ride.

[bowenw]

It could mean a few different things. It may mean he does not like to be questioned and and wants to have the final say on everything. He may also mean he wants to be dominant in the bedroom. I suggest you ask him what he meant by it.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Iron_Man]

You like to take control? Tell the man what to do tell the man that we’re going here we’re doing this and that a shot caller

[Asker]

i didn't understand it, i'm not a native sorry:)

[Iron_Man]

This is what it means in America by letting you take the lead. It is being the boss of the relationship being the planner being the guide. Look it up online too I’m telling you exactly what it means.

[Asker]

so he wants to control me, us, our relationship. yeah?

[Iron_Man]

no you don’t understand me. It means that you want to control him be the boss

[Anonymous]

It means lubricate your throat or prepare for the consequences.

[AngryCarl]

It's his way or the highway.

[In_Trance]

It means he likes to lead

[Anonymous]

Means you're going to be a SUB

[Anonymous]

How do you not know what that means?

[Asker]

explain it please, i'm not sure about he said that as a normal way or he wants to control me

[Opinion Owner]

He wants to be the leader in the relationship. Trust his judgment. Some women like that. If you dont, doesn't sound like he's the right guy with you.

[Opinion Owner]

*right guy for you.