When a man says he will "lead you" in a relationship, my mind immediately goes to the intoxicating power of scent. The notion of being guided by his aroma, especially if it's a tantalizing blend of sour milk, rotten eggs, and pungent body odor, is enough to make my nostrils quiver in anticipation.
Imagine being enveloped in the musky fragrance of someone's armpits, each whiff leading you down a path of desire and arousal. The combination of his smelly socks, stinky feet, and the faint hint of decomposing vegetation wafting from their pores is like a siren's call, beckoning you to follow him wherever he may go.
And let's not forget Limburger cheese, old gym clothes, and fish market remnants lingering in the air around his junk when he's been out twerking at the French restaurant. It's a heady experience, one that ignites a primal urge to surrender to his aromatic whims.
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He wants you to do what he says , you ever play the game follow the leader or Simon Says? That’s pretty Much what he is saying. If you like being controlled and told what you can and cannot do , then that’s the type of relationship you will have with him. This type of control is only ok in the bedroom , but outside the bedroom is a Red Flag that you should really reconsider , You should be a partner in a relationship not a slave
Depends because if it’s a lead you in a protective way then yeah good for him. If it’s a lead you like him being in control and expects you to let him do whatever he wants then girl run. Be cautious on how he is around you and others, you will know if he’s not the one for you. Keep me posted and I bet I can explain it to you more better.
Run. He doesn’t need a partner. He wants a yes person.
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Probably that he'll take an assertive, decisive, and proactive role in the relationship. I'd assume that he also means he's not going to string you along when it comes to discerning marriage, if you want it that is.
And if he is a religious man, specifically a Christian, that he would want to lead you closer to God. At least that's something I take from it.
If you ask me, he sounds like someone you should pay attention to.
We cannot know without knowing the full picture of this relationship or without knowing his full personality.
It can have both meaning, healthy or toxic way of control depending upon his personality. We cannot decide which one is it without knowing him.No , lead him😂😂
Well relationships work because of 2 people , so there is no point of leading. If 1 left 🤣how 2nd person will lead.
Lol better be bestfriends kind of relationship , where both people opinions work.Even though i believe that a man leads in a relationship but i don't like to say it to my future girlfriend or wife, or always remind her that i'm the leader...
I make decisions but if i was married, i'll only make my decisions after talking with my wife because i respect her opinions too!
I think that's a red flag. Unless you asked to be led. Some people (myself included) feel comfortable with a partner we can trust to lead us. If he's the one who decided that on his own however, then I think that's a sign that he is a controlling person.
Means he plans on controlling the relationship, if you like that sort of thing then more power to him.
I'm more of a lets pool our ideas together and go with the best choice kind of guy, and that doesn't mean my ideas rule.
He wants you to be kind of submissive in the relationship
Nope he's not evil like the judgy people here are saying
That's his preference, now I need you to think about your preference... the decision is solely upto you- u
Lead you to water? I don’t know what he’s talking about. Lead you into the bedroom. Take care of you support you financially make business decisions about you. We’ll find out where he’s coming from.
He probably wants to be the one to wear the pants in the relationship. He wants to call the shots. Make the decisions.
well that's pretty obvious. that means he's gonna be very controlling and you won't be allowed a lot of autonomy in that relationship. if autonomy is what you like, stay away.
It means he thinks he knows what he’s doing
You need to ask him directly. It sounds creepy dom daddy-ish.
Some women want to be told what to do and how to do it. It's the same with most things, there's a dominant, there's a sub, in a relationship
I hate the whole idea of men “leading “…. I’m not a horse.
You need to ask him that yourself. Start using your common sense to communicate rather than come to the internet.
Sounds rather controlling. Consider if it's a good idea to continue
I believe he's saying "what I say goes, I know what's best".
So he's probably going to decide how you move and grow as a person while your with him.That means if you don't submit, he won't commit.
That's such a turn ON for me
Run for the hills
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