Would you date a partner if they wanted you to sleep with other people?

[LaurasSlaven]

Picture this, you’re 3 dates in and everything is going great. Things get quiet for a moment and they tell you:

“just so you know, I’m looking for a specific type of relationship. I don’t want to restrict my partners sexual freedom in any way. I want you to be able to sleep with other people as much (or little) as you want. I will never ask you for the same thing. I really want to be dedicated to one person and I want that person to sexually free. My romantic feelings for you will never depend upon you denying your sexual desires for other people.”

“to be perfectly clear, I would like to know everything that happens, I don’t want to be surprised or unaware. I don’t want to be in a relationship where you don’t pursue other people from time to time. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to have sex with you, I definitely do. A one sided open relationship.”

(what I have just described is basically a cuckold/cuckquean/one sided-swingers/one sided open relationship)

Old stereotypes would have men loving this and women not but let me know what you think. :)

please post your thoughts :)

This sounds like a dream.

I’d give it a go.

I wouldn’t like that.

I would like to be the person proposing this

Other

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No. I wouldn’t be happy if my partner wanted to share me with other people.

[Angxl3120]

Id give it a try but suddenly if his feelings or the "fantasy" changes i guess he would lose his feelings. If his feelings don't change and you feel comfortable too then its not an issue as he wants you to sleep with other people sometimes but for me it is kind of weird for a guy to say that

[Emyyyy]

In an open relationship yes. I’d like an open relationship because I’m very picky and have a wondering eye myself.

😂😂😂

[petitedollbabee]

I’m not into non-monogamy, even if it’s one sided. So I would end our dates there and wish them luck on finding a partner who’s into that relationship dynamic.

[Elinnnor]

i would not date someone who wants me sleep with other people. That s no real relationship🫡Why would I want to sleep with other men If I already Have one and I love him? Theoretically, of course, I m single.

[HelpfulWoman]

I wouldn't.
I'm open to the idea of poly relationships, but the "you can sleep around, i won't" isn't a dynamic i care to explore.

[LaurasSlaven]

Why not? What makes it so different from a poly or open relationship situation?

[HelpfulWoman]

there's a difference between an organic "i've just not found another i care to date" rather than setting the strict boundary of "i'm not dating anyone but you" in poly. I've not seen anyone personally do that that wasn't basically a cuck kink.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

A guy can just make it easy, forget about dating and just get hookers who'd be down with it and pay them.

[Nikki1989]

I am already in an open-marriage, but we only chose one other partner, which happens to be my girlfriend. It is a simple arrangement, but it works for us.

[Anonymous]

I'd only like this if he can't sexually satisfy me

[Opinion Owner]

Who is this lol

[musicbrain5]

Not at all.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope.

[LaurasSlaven]

Why? I thought most men would think this is the dream, a woman who is 100% devoted to you and is not only okay with you seeing other girls but wants you to?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because I don't want more than one, too much hassle.

And because if she's ok with that, it says 2 things about her.
1. She doesn't love me, because if she did, she would be possessive over me.
2. She thinks cheating is ok, so she will probably want other men.

[Wise4myage]

No thanks.

[LaurasSlaven]

Why? I thought most men would think this is the dream, a woman who is 100% devoted to you and is not only okay with you seeing other girls but wants you to?