So the arguments go like this, he gets pissed off with me for something. I apologise , offer to make it up to him, I ask him how to fix things etc. Nothing helps and then he makes me feel guilty by saying I’ve ruined his weekend because he can’t spend time with me now that I’ve annoyed him.
I tell him I tried to fix it and apologise. So I’m pretty much blamed for the fight and blamed for not fixing the fight and blamed for the fact he can’t see me because I made him angry. It’s like talking to a wall trying to tell him how it frustrates me. This can’t be how most couples fight?