Is he starting to lose interest or am I overthinking it?

Anonymous

This guy and I met at the beginning of this month and our first date was so much fun. I can confidently say we both enjoyed each others company and had a great time. He even initiated wanting to me again the following week. Ever since our first date we've been pretty much Face-timing every night and seeing each other at least once a week.


This week though I felt like I noticed his level of communication has decreased a bit. He'd had a day off yesterday and the day before and I knew he had plans with coworkers to which I was happy he got to go out and spend time with his friends but I barely heard from him which only felt weird because he's gone out before and would let me know when he's home or check in.


I also feel like this past week I've been the one to initiate all the FT calls but he always answered and nothing in our conversation seemed off. I did FT him last night during my break at work (which is normal because he knows my schedule and usually asks me to call him at this time) but he didn't answer and I just figured he was already hanging out with his coworkers again. Here we are to today and I haven't gotten a text from him and I'm starting to feel really anxious.


I'm not sure what could have gone wrong because he spent the night at my place on Tues/Wed and we had a good time. Worked out together, walked my dog at the beach, and had dinner together.

Is he starting to lose interest or am I overthinking it?
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