Do you have red flags that will scare off anyone interested in you?

[Anonymous]

I have a lot of red flags that will scare men off.

[Anonymous]

- i have old sh scars, like way more than just a couple. like i need to wear long sleeves all the time

- i have a very weird relationship with food and i'm pathologically obsessed with how i look. i know that annoys people a lot, at some point everyone tells me to stop talking about that stuff to them or else they can't hang out with me anymore cos its really too much lol

-i had a hoe phase when i was 18

and more

i think i'm pretty undateable rn unless the guy is just as fucked as i am

[ZamerZ]

I do have red flags and I am very honest about them. Putting all of my cards on the table so people know what they'd be getting themselves into, but for some inane reason it doesn't scare them off because they think "she will be different with me because I love her so much that I can fix her" - and that's not how it works.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm not sure if this falls into "red flag" territory, but I am absolutely NOT the kind of person that's going to give you unlimited validation and reassurance.

[Lionman95]

I hope not. I have redflags yes but I hope they aren´t that exclusive.

[LemiaOfThunder]

• Smokers
• Bad Higyne
• druggie
• bad rep

[BLP11520]

Being married should do that but it actually doesn’t

[Anonymous]

yeah i do. i still tend to find men chasing after me though.

[eagle1951]

only one i have is being so darn old

[Anonymous]

I am short, autistic, fat, and balding.

[Nikki1989]

I wish I did.

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[LavLavLuv]

I guess yes