First date for red flags?

[RoseySarah]

Would you give them a chance?

Yes one date 🌹

No stop before the first date!

[kareenakapur]

id give anyone at least one chance. Lowkey I am the calls all her exes crazy and toxic. I need to stop and really think bc I am crazy and can be toxic too. Spends all their time on me? Sounds like a green flag lol as long as they are employed.

[RoseySarah]

What about not employed and obsessed?
Has that one before scary!

[kareenakapur]

girl that's me lol

[kareenakapur]

I need someone to support us lol as im a student still

[RoseySarah]

Lol
Well have to make sure he can work! Most guys as students get so lazy and after just won't ever work!
Like you have to pay the bills and get food! Not love off food stamps while the girlfriend buys everything while being at McDonald's.

Keep looking girl there are some guys who will be amazing and working during school who wants a girlfriend

Your amazing you will find someone

[dolemite58]

she’s being rude to me or the waiters

being on her phone unless it’s an emergency

asks about having kids or serious relationship stuff too quickly

if she gets sloppy drunk or even seems like she drinks often.

if she’s one of those former party girls that tries to act all reformed now. if they say born again christian now it’s a dead give away 🤣

[RoseySarah]

If they say atheist that is a dead give away they won't care about their actions or feelings for me.

[Anonymous]

Not if we haven't dated and she's ALREADY showing red flags.

[RoseySarah]

Very smart would your friends agree?

[Opinion Owner]

My friends are their own persons they have to decide what's right for them. I don't keep friends who's character I can't vouche for if that's what you're asking. I'm always going to care about the people I love and i'll always be there to help if i can. But you can't live someone's life for them.

[YesterdaysChild]

No way, and no how! Use the flags to stir up your recipe for disaster.

[RoseySarah]

So true but many can't resist!
"But he is so..." "I don't mind that she..."

[LunarEclipse433]

What is wrong with wanting to spend time with someone you enjoy?

[RoseySarah]

This is a date not spending time or hanging out.

Nothing wrong with that we all have vampuric friends a lot of the time.

[BLP11520]

If you ask a question and they take too long to answer, red flag!

[RoseySarah]

Like in text or verbally?

[BLP11520]

Verbally

[BLP11520]

Texting you can get interrupted very easily

[RoseySarah]

So she is retarted or just mentally slow or distracting

[BLP11520]

Probably

[NerdPower99]

She manors how they treat wait staff, and also if they're on their phones.