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My brother once dated a bit of a crazy girl who was very pretty and when I asked him,
“Aren’t you scared, she’s obviously a bit psycho.”
He said “I know she is, but those are the types of girls who are the best in bed.”
Perhaps, haha. It seems to be that way.
But I’m not sure if I would call it mental instability, maybe emotional volatility?
Girls that have extreme highs and lows when it comes to their emotions and feelings.
What one may call crazy, another may call passionate.
And I believe that’s the thing.
Girls who are able to be emotionally unrestrained in the bedroom are really able to reach new heights of passion.
Untamed, wild, uninhibited, passionate — complete immersion.
It can be difficult to get into that headspace if someone is trying to stay level-headed all the time.
But those that can will definitely spice things up in the bedroom.
Good sex is so much about the energy one brings and that crazy energy can really give a guy a rush.
I suppose an analogy would be a guy making love to a girl, and the guy is holding back the whole time.
As compared to…
The guy is just going all out with unrestrained passion and the girl truly feels the guy’s aggressive desire for her.
Girls that are into that are going to enjoy that much more.
For guys, it’s not so different.
So it’s not exactly the mental instability — it’s the ability to get really passionate in the bedroom, which may be easier for crazy girls.
No. The problem with this assumption is hook up culture. Women who feel safe and cherished in a relationship are far more likely to be sexually open and adventurous. When you have a woman like that, who is committed and loyal to you, the sexual pleasure and experience is better than anything else. This is demonstrated in the data.
However, a woman who is crazy is more likely to be open and uninhibited for random people she meets in a hook up scenario. And so those who are embroiled in the hook up culture then make the incorrect assumption that these kind of women are better in bed than any other woman, not knowing the there is an even better option they are completely missing out on.
There could be some truth to this.
1) Mentally unstable have a hard time connecting to people and given the high physical proximity and no "language barrier" they can express themselves fully through touch.
2) They know they lack in the other areas or they are often abandoned since they are difficult to be in a relationship with so, they are highly performative and want to please their partner to keep them.
3) They are more passionate due to the extreme changes in mood they experience depending on the mental illness.
Sadly, we live in an increasingly cruel world with compassion and empathy at all-time lows and mentally unstable people are getting a real 💩 kicking from people thinking it's fine to sleep with them and discard them because they are "crazy".
Likely because mentally ill people tend to sleep around more, thus they get more experience.
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Unstable women tend to be a little less removed from their pursuit of physical pleasures, and that's ultimately what makes a girl good in bed: when she is shamelessly determined to use a cock to get herself off.
But men are already like that normally and what makes a guy good in bed is his ability to consider what a woman needs to get off. Often, that need is just for the guy to do exactly what he wants, anyway, so it's normally not an issue, but it can be and men have to step out of their animal brain to see it. Greater mental stability is thus ultimately what makes men better in bed, not instability.
I don't know if the mentally unstable ones are better, but I can guarantee you that mean women are overwhelmingly more passionate in the bedroom. Guys talk all the time about how much more exciting it is to have sex with a true 'Bitch Goddess'.
Probably a dopamine chaser. They have INTENSE feelings of passion which makes them very sensual. The downside is the eventual letdown. That’s probably what you perceive to be unstable or “psycho”. I think it’s the same chemical pathway as addiction. Very tough to break to pursue something more balanced, long lasting, and meaningful.
i did date a girl who was... way more into naughtier things than other girls i dated... so maybe there's some truth to it... but im sure it's purely anecdotal. i doubt anyone has done actual studies on 'crazy girl promiscuity' before lol.
People with mental illness often have impaired judgment and limpulse control which sometimes leads to promiscuity. This is perceived by others as being willing and easy to have sex and willing to engage in unusual sex practices.
Well, sort of.
Well adjusted people don't tend to have the most exciting sex life.
The kinkier sex that lies out of the norm is usually the result of some sort of a maladjustment.
No. Mentally unstable people might kill you.
First off where did you hear that second off no way that’s like saying blondes are better in bed than redheads. Doesn’t make any sense and it has no factual content to it whatsoever and hyper sexuality has nothing to do with being good in bed.
Well, a lot of women with bipolar illness are hyper sexual. I guess some might consider that to be "better in bed".
It's not the "in bed" part you worry about, it's the "after" part. LOL I have never been in bed with anyone I'd consider truly mentally unstable - a little weird or wacky, but not crazy.
That's what's shown in the music video of "Sweet but psycho" by Ava Max, but when I saw it, I thought "wtf", because in a later scene of the video she couldn't accept a no and ran after him with a huge knife.
No, it's not. I dated a very stable and kinky woman with a Ph. D. in engineering. Best sex ever.
Probably? But that’s not a good thing. Those are the type of women to put a hole in the condom to try and get pregnant so they can get child support.
it's true. they have little or no inhibitions
it depends on what kind of psycho. If she’s the type to slash my tires, stab me, etc., the next guy can have her lol.
Because they are more focused on their desires which calms the men which makes them courteous and polite around the women.
That's what everyone says, and it may be true. Those girls tend to be more open-minded and kinkier when it comes to sex.
Probably for a number of reasons including having an insecure attachment and/or reduced self-consciousness
The reason for this is because they less inhibition.
No, but the rest of us are better of if they just stay in bed.
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