What should I expect in dating a German guy?

[twinson]

I've never dated a German guy before, nor have any German friends. So, what should I expect in dating a German guy? Any tips?

[fairytale]

Germany guys is like a heaven in Earth... Dating a German guy, based on my experience, often involves characteristics like punctuality, direct communication, and a strong sense of responsibility. German men tend to be straightforward and value honesty in relationships. They appreciate clear communication and expect partners to express their thoughts openly. Punctuality is highly regarded, so expect your date to be on time. German men are often independent and may value personal space and self-sufficiency. They also tend to be responsible and reliable in their commitments. Overall, dating a German guy can be a stable and straightforward experience, with an emphasis on clear communication and mutual respect.

[Anonymous]

Dating experiences can vary widely from person to person, and cultural backgrounds can influence dating dynamics. When dating a German guy, you may encounter some common traits and expectations, but remember that individuals are unique. Here are some general things you might expect:

1. Directness: Germans are often known for their direct communication style. Your German partner may appreciate open and honest conversations, and they might value clear communication in a relationship.

2. Punctuality: Germans tend to be punctual and value being on time. Arriving late for a date might be considered disrespectful.

3. Independence: German culture places a strong emphasis on individualism and self-sufficiency. Your partner may value personal space and independence.

4. Splitting Bills: In Germany, it's common for couples to split bills when going out, rather than one person always covering the expenses. This reflects a sense of fairness and equality in relationships.

5. Planning and Organization: German culture often values planning and organization. Your partner might appreciate making concrete plans for dates and activities.

6. Honesty and Trust: Trust is essential in German relationships. Being honest and reliable are highly valued qualities.

7. Personal Space: Germans may also value personal space and privacy. It's important to respect your partner's need for alone time or time with friends.

Remember that these are general tendencies and not absolute rules. People are individuals, and their dating preferences and behaviors can vary widely. The key to a successful relationship is communication and understanding each other's needs and expectations. Take the time to get to know your partner, their background, and their unique personality.

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[AviatorTom]

He probably speaks German. Other than that, he's probably similar to other guys in the world. He may like to follow rules... many Germans do... or maybe not.

Just enjoy dating him... without any pre-conceived notions. Just like you'd date any guy.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Dated a cute German guy in February- March.

First, he’s probably very hot and stylish and lots of girls will be into him,

2nd, if he’s anything like the guy I dated, he probably is amazing at kissing,

he is probably a gentleman, my date got me flowers the first day he met me.

He’s also probably amazing at dancing.

He must also be very honest and straightforward, which is a nice trait.

He might want to pay or he might not. My German date insisted to pay, even though I offered to split.

All in all, out of thus year’s dating experiences, dating him was one of the most memorable ones.

[DaySpring]

Stereotypical

[SakuraBlossoms87]

@lafemmefatale_1 - I almost died laughing as someone who IS German. You win the prize of the century for telling the most inaccurate sterotypical description of a German.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@SakuraBlossoms87 I just described someone I dated haha

[Anonymous]

they will treat you more like a best friend than a girl (like they're not going to pay for you, open doors for you, or that kind of stuff)

they're very casual about sex (if by dating you mean seeing them, not being exclusive, you're gonna get it probably on the first date. if you want to wait like 6 dates would frustrate him)

they're romantic but not so passionate

they're very ponctual so you should be also

they often dont like small talk, they prefer a bit deeper convos (by deep i'm not saying like philosophy or your life trauma or something ness)

[BourbonAndBacon]

Both my parents are German and I grew up with friends with the same background as me. We can be pretty stubborn and want things a certain way. We are also slightly crazy. Let's be honest, last century we picked a fight with the entire world twice. But we are loyal to our own and family is important. We work hard and we party hard. Check out Oktoberfest.

[lorenzomichael]

Yeah he probably loves German beers and he loves German cars. Shit I love German cars. However I don't own a German car but I have a BMW. A Big Mexican Wennie. Have fun and good luck. But seriously other than there cars and there beers I don't find anything interesting about Germany. So my dear it's probably going to be up to you to make your date one to remember. So show him some American hospitality take him to the best Mexican restaurant you know. JK

[DryGermanGuy]

He will speak loud and militaristic and have no humor at all. He will always eat bratwurst and sauerkraut and drink beer. He will probably try to invade Poland. 🤔

[Julie4]

And France? 🤣

[Agape93]

Nah nobody invades France. You can't invade a nation that surrenders immediately lol

[DryGermanGuy]

First Poland, then France. There has to be order!

[Unit1]

think of it like a mystery gift. I knew Germans, who had my back and i knew Germans, who were all nice and kind but are actually backstabbing pieces of garbage.

Can't trust them. But that is unlikely exclusive to Germans.

[Sasha0426]

Huh, funny. I get the backstabbing from Americans. Americans seem to not value friendships or relationships.

[Unit1]

@Sasha0426 Very true. These backstabbers come in all types. Wish karma would step in and give them what they deserve.

[Adaeva]

Unless he is out of your league and not available to you, you should expect him to be like other guys you dated.

[sage2021]

He'll probably want to fill you in on Germany.
A Braunschweiger sasauage yes?

Good luck 🍀🤞

[catarecute]

according to google Germany was nazi less about 70 years ago. according to google about 80% of Germans alive had a nazi mother or father.

[SakuraBlossoms87]

@catarecute - and most Americans alive are idiots.

[catarecute]

@SakuraBlossoms87 thats what i have noticed as well.

[Paris13]

Accent and Maybe a More Strict Upbringing. xxoo

[petera1987]

Expect him to do the goosestep and wear lederhosen, but first make sure he wasn't a corporal in the German Army, and if he has a funny little moustache that's definitely a big red flag.

[Anonymous]

I would think he is going to act the same as the rest of us and their culture is similar to most guys in the USA, we all have the same wants and desires no matter where we came from, hopefully he speaks good English

[genericname85]

don't expect him to treat you like something special cause you're a woman.

[shades777]

don't know as a straight man never crossed my mind, ahaha. but if i had to guess they like beer so go to bar and they probably like plays

[Anonymous]

They're boring as hell. You'd better keep doing yourself favor by not dating one of them.

[Anonymous]

number 1 ukraine puppets thats what will you get from dating german guy

[Charliefretz329]

Probably a frankfurter.

[jahaims]

For him to be able to speak German

[DexWest]

I’m German. What do you want to know?

[MaxUsefull]

Just don't be Jewish 😂😂😂

[Jmmmfi4]

HE'LL WANT TO NAME THE BABY ADOLF

[RedInnocent68]

Efficient sex 😂

[Anonymous]

German sausage

[Kristierose]

A lot of amal