Is this cheating? More info in the rest of the question?

[Anonymous]

Is it cheating if I’m in a long term relationship and the relationship isn’t so great at the moment and I go on social media posting sexy pics and writing back to guys in my DMs? I did this after my boyfriend told me I am ugly (when he’s mad at me) and he told me to go talk to other guys. He literally told me to do these things and said he didn’t want to be with me and called me horrible names. We have good moments and more bad ones. He found out that I was writing back to these men and posting sexy pictures and was furious. I don’t do it anymore but he still brings it up and says I cheated on him.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You did, I'm not saying he was right for saying those things cause he shouldn't have but you honestly should be just left him before doing so cause the intentions of cheating on him are still there, which is a big part of the fault goes to him but you did do it so you are partially wrong for that as well, you know its wrong so you doing it anyways is wrong as well, you should've just left him if you knew you were gonna do it cause the fact that you did him dirty is there and other guys do have your pictures now, those things don't change and won't change, these choices might have out a strong dent into the relationship that can't be repaired just cause both of y'all have the knowledge on the fact that this happened and it can't be taken back.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Shouldve left him*

[Lliam]

An LDR can't even be called a relationship. It's little more than being pen pals.
Who knows what he's doing that you don't know about? And after what he said to you, you don't owe him a thing.
I think what you did was a good way of telling him to fuck himself. Good for you.

[jahaims]

Anything that you wouldn't say or do in front of your partner is cheating

[Anonymous]

Yes, of course it is.