We both were married perviously and he cheated on his ex wife. I have been very transparent of my dating past and apps, even when it didn’t make me look good (threesomes). However he has lied about what apps he’s been on and talking to ex girlfriends as well as having an active dating profile but no recent activity. Should I trust him?
The fact that you were married to him previously is already a reason not to trust him. If he is your ex, then he was your ex for a very good reason. You seem to have forgotten about those reasons and you closed both eyes on the reason, dismissing all the warning signs that told you to keep your distance.
However, you are no angel and by far, mainly in view of the passive cheating with 2 simultaneous people while fornicating.
Should you trust him? Of course not and you know it. This should not even be a question. Get rid of him because you know very well how the outcome will be.
Hmmmm...
The fact that this douchebag cheated on his ex WIFE - not ex girlfriend, ex WIFE - is enough for most decent self-respecting women to treat him like a leper. Instead you think he's the next best thing to sliced bread and agree to marry him.
As for his dating apps let me make it VERY simple for you.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
It is EXTREMELY rare that someone who cheats stops cheating and that's usually when they are PAST the age of over sexuality - so by that I mean in their 50s or 60s, NOT 30s.
Absolutely not. Dating apps when your in a relationship is a hard no. It’s a sign he’s out there looking at least and if an opportunity falls into his lap likely to respond to it. It’s like a person saying their sober but keeping a bottle of vodka ‘just to have it’. Plus, add their background of already showing a proclivity toward cheating and it’s nothing less than an insight into the person they are.
I worked with a guy who was doing the same thing and got busted big time when his wife’s friend set him up with a fake profile. Maybe it’s something you should try.
If you are already catching him in lies than that just goes to show he has no problem lying to you period , so if I was you , I would so reconsider that relationship and end that engagement or you will just be digging your own grave if you think he is going to change lol
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Careful on what constitutes an "active" profile. Accidentally click a picture on some spam they send you and it'll automatically log you in and show a recent activity. Best just discuss it with him and see what's what. If he IS lying, well... he did show you earlier the kind of person he is. He cheated before after all...
Nope. Even the best of us are just OK. If he gets consent he will do it. He. Might not be on all the time. He's an opportunist and he might like you. He'll probably claim you and go home to you. All it takes is one shot.
Should you? You already don't, and with good reason. Call it off until you feel that you can trust him.
There's nothing wrong with participating in a threesome with two other consenting adults.
I don't want to be a home wrecker or anything but I don't think you can trust him. I have a friend who does this and he admits it's to sleep around...
lmaoooo girlllllllllllllllll
he already told you he should have been avoided... he cheated on his effing WIFE for christ sake.
If in your relationship was everything OK and no big deal fights then you shouldn't trust him.
He's done it in the past and done it again. I don't think you can trust him. He's up to something.
Read your question title as if it were someone else's. What would you tell that person and there is your answer. You have blinders on and it shows.
u If u find a active dating profile how can u trust him sorry
" Should I trust him?" Seriously? *eyeroll* You'll have NO ONE to blame but yourself if you do.
You should already know that you can't trust him.
You have the survival instincts of a two months baby lmao 😂...
No, but he most likely is bored with you or you are just very stupid otherwise I see no reason for him to do that
Debents what’s your brain telling you
One lie is just one of many
Apply common sense to your situation
Dump him
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