Girls, I went on 10 dates with this guy, he's a bit older than me and has his own house?

[Anonymous]

I'm 24, and he's 34, has a great job and has his own house. Not an apartment but a house. I couldn't stop smiling when I saw how nice he kept it. He is tall and strong and says he has to be strong to defend his house. He told me his fiance died in a car accident six years ago, and for that time he didn't feel ready to date and he's willing to give it a chance now.

Once, we had a dinner date at his house and we ate food he cooked. I went to do the dishes and he came and wrapped his arms around my waist. He asked if I was comfortable and I said yes. He stayed like that for a few seconds and then let me go. When I was leaving, he gave me a hug and kiss. I am really comfortable around him, another time, we watched a movie at his house, and I sat next to him with my shirt up. He pulled me closer to him and I was glad. How can I give him more encouragement to make moves on me? I know he's probably trying to show that he doesn't only like me for sexual stuff.

[StarWarGirl]

Have patience, go slow. You need not to give him more signs. No matter how stable he is in his life still you are searching the life partner for yourself. Try to see and analyse how is he with his behaviour, values, how far he can be good parter for you or not, how far you both could adjust, does he really loves you enough, what are good sides and bads, would you be really you with him? Would you feel happy with him as partner. Try to get answers of these important questions.

[Paris13]

So Far So Good. Just Go Slow For Now... xxoo