Why would a guy I've been dating just want to hang out at his house after he put so much effort the first three dates even though we didn't have sex?

[Anpernam]

[Anonymous]

So you’re upset he didn’t take you out and spend money on you?

[Anpernam]

I have been going Dutch on dates

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Hard to believe. But even if you’re being honest what’s wrong w him wanting to hang out at his house?

[Anpernam]

Because it's always about sex

[Opinion Owner]

You’re implying that when men want to hang out at their house it’s always about sex? Or w him it’s always been about sex?

[Anpernam]

It's always about leading up to sex every time, turning off the lights, walking me to his bedroom it's never just hanging out

[Opinion Owner]

So how many times have you been to his place? Because you make it sound as though you’ve been there a lot even though you’ve only been on three dates with him.

[Twalli]

He's becoming more comfortable with you. The longer a relationship goes on, the less effort will be put into dates. After all, if you are in love with him, you'll want to be with him, even if he's not making it amazing every time.

[Anpernam]

It's only been one month that's very fast

[Twalli]

Not necessarily. Especially not if you're already exclusive.

[BarryLiverstone]

Might have have a hard and busy week. So he wants some down time to recharge. Are you excited to hang with him?

[In_Trance]

Maybe he doesn't feel it's worth the effort anymore

[beenherebefore]

He no longer feels the need to put effort.

[Staximus]

He's either broke or trying to have sex

[roy_ricky09]

Isn't it obvious

[cavedweller1973]

Hmmm that seems odd