Am I being used as a hook up if all our dates are at his house (but that’s what he did in previous relationships)?

[Anonymous]

He lives like 10 mins away from me so it was just kind of a thing we do we’ve met four times all of which was at his place and he would try get me to stay over etc my friends say he’s just using me but in his previous relationships they mostly went to each other houses

[spartan55]

Okay, why does it matter what he did in his previous relationships? That has nothing to do with your deal with him now, so I'm not sure what you are talking about. You really don't understand that you are being used? Come on.

[Asker]

I mean if that’s the case then he’s using most girls he’s had relationships with for sex

[spartan55]

Okay, and?

[Asker]

I guess it means the guy isn’t shit.

[ShiftingMonke]

Are you not comfortable going to his place? If it's working for the both of you, that's all that matters.

[Anemone978]

Probably is... why isn't he taking you out if you two only live 10 minutes away?

[Asker]

You think since we live close it would be all the more reason for him to plan something that’s convenient for us both?

[Anemone978]

Yeah defo.. I was talking to a guy he only lives 5 minutes away from me... would not take me on a date he was just trying to get in my pants... its been 4 months we are kind of friends and he still messages me to meet up but I never do... I just keep him around for a confidence booster and if I can't find someone of quality I might finally hook up with him down the road because he is really cute and fit! LOL

[Adaeva]

If so, you are a slut.

[LazerBean]

Likely.

[saffoler]

Definitely.

[TheFlak38]

whore alert

[Asker]

I was celibate for 10 months before I met him but sure