I hate when my boyfriend is too close to girls that their boobs are touching him?

[Anonymous]

I told my boyfriend that I hate when he goes out with girls when I am not with him. They click pictures too close and I don't like it. I told him that it was hurting me and not to do that. But he is still doing that. I asked him not to send pictures but he is still sending pics where they were so close. What do I do?

[Morgador]

When you care about someone and they tell you that certain things/actions you do upsets them and you blow it off and continue to do these things knowing it hurts you but you don't care. This is someone who is selfish and puts himself first. A relationship that is one-sided will never work. He should always think of you first and you should always think about him first. Doing this will build a solid foundation for your relationship. It's sounds like he's not ready to fully commit to a relationship. You need to decide what you want and are willing to live/put up with in your current relationship.

[Truthatanycost]

You created boundaries. He continued breaking them. Your issue is that you are not enforcing them. That is the only way. Learn this lesson now, before it's too late.

[Asker]

I feel that I am restricting him from enjoying or going out with friends. So I told even though it hurts, he can still go out and have fun and told him not to mind me. Because he should have that sense not to do it when it's hurting me. I told him at least not to send pictures to me so that my mental peace would not be destroyed. But he says he doesn't like hiding and he still shares all those with me. Do you think I should strictly say not to do this or ignore these and concentrate on my career and growth?

[Asker]

What should I enforce?

[Truthatanycost]

When you need to tell someone how to behave it usually means its all over. But this sounds like an unhealthy situation. He probably wants to be free to do as he pleases, and perhaps you should focus on your career and growth as you mentioned. If you were to ask yourself what the end game was for this boyfriend I bet you wouldn't know.

[Asker]

Thanks for your help!

[Sunnybeach123]

Ask him not to do it. I understand what you mean, a girl who presses her boobs against a guy will likely arouse that guy.

[Anonymous]

Dump him if small things like this upset you.

[coonhater420]

Oh no!!! Get a grip you insecure loser, I know your boyfriend is bitching you around in the relationship

[Anonymous]

Who are these girls? Do they have really big boobs or something? Where are they touching him?

[Danny_dan92]

Mmm well.. time to breakup

[LunarEclipse433]

Thats nothing to worry about

[Anonymous]

Insecure cunt spotted