Does she want to play with me?

[Nobody2k]

This girl and I met 4 years ago, we had a few more than friends activities when she was drunk. One time she told me she loved me via text and I pretty much ignored it. We then disconnected a few years ago because of something unfortunate that happened between the two of us. Honestly, I love her too. After two years, she proactively reconnected with me and asked me out but it didn't work out because I thought she was quite busy and said that anytime was fine as long as she was free. The second time was the last time I proactively asked about her life and she also proactively invited me out again. But like last time, she made an appointment without clearly stating the specific location and time. I also took the initiative to ask for the time and pick her up if she wanted. She said no need then texting flirtly to me and the chat end since that with no reply from her. The day was coming when we would meet and what she did confused me to no end. What should I do now?

[OlderAndWiser]

"This girl and I met 4 years ago, we had a few more than friends activities when she was drunk." So you can't honestly express yourself when you're sober?

"One time she told me she loved me via text and I pretty much ignored it." Brilliant move! Fucking brilliant!

"We then disconnected a few years ago because of something unfortunate that happened between the two of us." The reason would be important if you truly wanted advice.

"Honestly, I love her too." When people begin a sentence with 'honestly,' they are almost always telling lies.

"she made an appointment without clearly stating the specific location and time." You could have clarified that immediately.

"I also took the initiative to ask for the time and pick her up if she wanted. She said no need then texting flirtly to me and the chat end since that with no reply from her." And you wer eplaying that game where you text and until she replies, you won't text again. Stupid game.

And if it was important, why were you texting at all? One phone call would have resolved all of the ambiguity.

"What should I do now?" Stop playing games and try being candid and honest.

[Anonymous]

She got bored of you. Ask her to tell you clearly about what she wants or else warn her that you'll dump her. She will realise and act correctly

[Anonymous]

Play?

Like in the sandbox or what?

[Nobody2k]

It's like playing with my emotions. Sorry for not writing clearly

[ImAlly]

Just go with it and see what happens

[In_Trance]

Move on