I’m talking to three great guys from a dating app but I’m having a tough time deciding who to devote to.. help me?

[Anonymous]

I made a bullet board thing for each guy. Let me know which one seems the most promising: )

Updates

3 mo

I’ve been dating Anthony for 3.5 months 🎉

[Oliverlogan263]

All right, let's analyze these options:

Anthony seems like he could be a good steady choice since he wants to take it slow. That's wise given y'all just met. Working with his hands at the auto shop shows he's handy too. Him living close and asking you out are big bonuses. I'd say stay talking to him and see where it goes.

Elijah raises some red flags in my opinion. Moving fast after just splitting from a fiancé is suspect - he may not be over them. Plus discussing sex already when you just met one day ago is kinda inappropriate. I'd be wary opening up to him until he proves more stable.

Brett seems okay besides the radio silence these past couple days. Could just be work stress like he said. His interests align with yours it seems too. I'd give him a little more time to reply back before ruling him out.

Overall I think Anthony has the most going for him right now based on what you shared. But feel it out with all three a bit longer before deciding. Your gut will tell you who genuinely likes YOU. Keep us posted girl!

[DaveJord]

Elijah... seriously he sounds like the most fun guy of the three, but whenever I meet a woman like an Elijah... I know it will end in flaming car wreck... but it will be one hell of ride until it's over. So, I would get busy with Elijah, but keep talking to the other two... one of the others will drop off, and when the party is over with Elijah, the other one will be ready to go.

But do not stall on the other two... if they ask you out you go out with them... like make no commitment to Elijah... he's the one you string along, but the other two are better guys for you in the long run.

I like Bret the best, because of Athony and the no flirting thing is lame.

[DaveJord]

Liked I have been in this situation before, more than once... two of them will eventually eliminate themselves and you will zero in on one or the other... you will see. But stop at three... it get too hard to manage and then they all get suspicious... but the second you decide and make a commitment then you end it with the others. But do not commit to Elijah, just use him as your boy toy.

[Asker]

Yea I’m thinking Brett is gonna eliminated himself

[DaveJord]

Trust your gut and if that is what it is telling you then go with it.

[kylee2437]

How about seeing which guy actually makes a move to take you out on a date? Many men / people on dating apps are big talkers but are horrible at executing what they say , so I think your best bet is not to pick one based on possible superficial aspects. People say anything on those apps and I noticed a lot of people add to their interests what they aren’t really even into sometimes

[fridge0]

I guess Anthony seems like the best choice out of the three. Brett is pretty okay too and Elijah is kind of a red flag.

[LazerBean]

Most likely Anthony, definitely not the middle option.

[tragictornado53]

I'd go with Anthony if the inconsistent texting is something you can tolerate. Best of luck!