Is it a good idea for a girl to be roommates with two guys ?

[Anonymous]

[nonyabeez-wax]

Not really. Here are the scenarios of why.

A. You're not intimate with either of them. The sexual tension becomes palpable. The stress of that drives them away from you, OR to each others throats.

B. You're intimate with one of them, which drives the other into jealousy as feelings develop.

C. You are intimate with both of them, of which makes both of them jealous towards the other.

D. One of them is unhinged, and could force himself on you because of the sexual tension. You need to REALLY trust a guy to be roommates with him.

E. Both could be unhinged. That scenario is... Dark...

F. You end up dating one, driving the other to move out.


Over all you need to REALLY trust the guy, there needs to be NO sexual or romantic interest, secretly or otherwise from or for either guy, and you need to be VERY hidden about the boundaries of your nudity. I. e: locking the bathroom door (prevents any accidental nudity shenanigans), changing in the bathroom, or your bedroom whilst never traveling between while not fully clothed, don't wear bathing suits around them (exposing your body can stir sexual attraction).

It's overall a bad idea because of the sexual and romantic elements at play here.

I don't know what kind of relationships you have with these men, but I implore you to consider these possibilities. ESPECIALLY if it wasn't your idea to be roommates.

[Asker]

Thanks sm for the thought and effort you put into this comment ! I really appreciate it

[glennos89]

If you wanne be sandwiched it might help living with 2 guys together...
But it can also create problems living with 2 guys together. Thinks could get very awkward aswell when you hook up with 1 of the 2 while the other also has feelings for you😂🤷‍♂️

It's nothing else then rolling dice at the casino🎲

You might win something but chances are higher that you lose. But hey... No risk no reward🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Haha thanks for your insightful comment

[glennos89]

Haha your welcome. Hopefully you got the answers you where looking for. Personally I think you are better of with 2 guys then having to fight with another girl if there is just 1 guy living with both of you girls😂

[Carina0]

If you are talking about people you know and trust, maybe. But otherwise it's definitely not a good idea. Either way, living with a man is a challenge in itself.

[Asker]

Thanks for your comment ! I really appreciate it!

[Sweetgirl234]

I'd prefer with girls. The privacy would be compromised with the two boys

[Asker]

I agree ☝️

[Paris13]

It has Draw Backs. She could Like One or Both of The Guys, One or Both can Like Her, One or Both of The Guys Could Have Girlfriends who are Jealous, She Could have a Boyfriend who is Jealous. Or Could be Like "Three's Company."lolxxoo

[Curmudgeon]

And this question comes up when Suzanne Somers passes away, RIP. John Ritter, son of the legendary "Tex" Ritter, passed away from a heart attack in 2003

https://www.youtube.com/embed/WfuTipCqs4A

[LeQuebecois]

If they are gay , sure.

Otherwise, no.

[Asker]

I don't know what it is , but gay guys are always so kind.

[LeQuebecois]

Well to women because they aren't trying to fuck them

[provokeesmokee]

Why not?

If you're all trustworthy and can live together well, agree on ground rules, and respect each other, I don't see how it's bad.

[Pyrofox]

I'd say its fine if they are both in the friendzone and clearly have made it clear no relationship drama or love triangles are gonna happen would be the only way it'd really work out. in my opinion.

[Asker]

Oh we’re all pretty much strangers

[elizamichale1]

sure why not.. i hav lived in the same room with 2 guys for years but well they r my brothers though

[sheikalana]

As long as they're not attracted to each other seems okay.

[Billlewis]

Sure. You'll feel more protected and you can also tease them whenever you want.

[Asker]

Yeah but I don't know them at all😂but the owner is doing background checks

[RedInnocent68]

Are they gay? Even then, probably not. Talk about a cockblocker for other guys 😂

[Asker]

Oh I’m a long term girl when it comes to sex and I’m not in a relationship at the moment so I probably wouldn’t be bringing guys home for that reason haha

[Kelly6]

if they are happy together then i see nothing wrong

[Nikki1989]

Most men are slobs. Apart from that, it can be OK.

[Iron_Man]

You’re talking about the TV show back in the 80s threes company. that’s kind of tough

[Asker]

Wait what do you mean?

[Iron_Man]

Google the TV show

[Curmudgeon]

yah, long running sitcom, going back to the 1970's at that. What struck me about it, even as a kid back then, was how the show was really carried not so much by the three lead actors, but by the supporting actors, Norman Fell and Audra Lindley (Mr. and Mrs. Roper), who played the nosy landlords for the three renters. After those two actors got their own spin off series and other more lucrative offers, I thought the show might end, but along came veteran comedy actor Don Knotts, who took over as Mr. Furley, the new building owner, who applied his classic "Barney Fife" comedy approach to the series and gave it new life for a few more seasons.

[shades777]

i imagine once she gets a boyfriend the other might be jealous or not give a damn, either way your saving money so who cares

[DarkWinterNights]

More likely than not going to be full of drama.

[Asker]

Tbh I thought guys didn't really have drama

[DarkWinterNights]

When there is a woman involved they do. Exceptions of course include if they’re gay or dating other people.

[Asker]

But does living in a shared space always means that you will develop feelings?

[Asker]

I didn’t really think it would matter much,.

[DarkWinterNights]

No, but that’s a big risk to take when it comes to living with someone.

[DextroShade]

Absolutely not, that is a terrible idea!

[Asker]

Can you tell me some reasons as to why?

[DextroShade]

Guys want to fuck you, they aren't your friends. Having two of them there is even worse, they might get competitive with each other and it will cause drama. If you try to bring a guy around it will also cause problems. At least one of them will try to make a move or see you naked. Throughout history in every part of the world men have never lived with women they weren't fucking or weren't related to.

[Asker]

Thank you sm for your wise words., i already didn’t think it was too good of an idea but I emailed a bunch of people and only a few responded so I thought I might consider it after talking to the main guy. He seemed pretty nice. are you a dad by any chance? You seem like you’re a really good girl dad

[DextroShade]

Not a dad yet but thank you!

[Asker]

Your welcome and thanks for your help😊

[Nifrayu]

Sure, why not?

[Asker]

Most people seem to think it’s a horrible idea haha 😂 tbh I didn’t think it was that bad at first but now I’m like maybe it wasn’t my brightest moment haha

[Nifrayu]

As long as they aren't bad guys there is no harm in it.

[Sunnybeach123]

It's iffy you don't know them at all.

[Asker]

Yeah i feel like you’re right

[Malwi93]

Room mates as in one room or one house?

[Asker]

Oh one house 😂

[jjj101010]

Depends what the plans r

[Asker]

Plans?

[BLP11520]

If you can get along, sure.

[In_Trance]

Three's Company

[Minahh]

I don't think so