Want to confess a girl who is 4 years elder then me?

[Anonymous]

She is my friend but we are not too close but she share everything with me and is so talkative. And I want to confess her thati really like her and want to be her life patner.

[SueShe]

Are you ready to accept rejection?

If you think that you are, then you simply tell her that you have a crush on her but beware! Crushes are usually a one-sided affair and seldom reciprocated. You better think it over well before you make your call.

If this girl does not reciprocate your infatuation, then you may well ruin your friendship. Suppose that she does not have the same feelings towards you. Then she may see you as a potential danger to her because she will never be able to be the same with you or behave the way she did before.

Also bear in mind that a 4 year older woman is anywhere 2-3 years more mature than you are. Are you willing to take the risk?

If you are taking that risk, then simply talk to her on a face-to-face basis and not through social media or texting. Good luck.

[_Maya_]

OK so go for it? I am not sure what you are asking. There is nothing really to answer here. I just say go for it if you really like her. The only issue is that you can totally destroy a friendship if she doesn't have the same feelings. I see that you say you are not too close but share everything. Sorta contradictory in my opinion. Just be prepared for awkwardness if she doesn't feel the same way. It is a tricky thing taking a friendship to a relationship if you aren't 100% sure she has those same feelings. Good luck.

[Avicenna]

Well, asking her to marry you might be a bit much unless thatch’s how it’s done in your society.

[In_Trance]

This is why men and women can't be friends