Men only have you ever dumped your girlfriend if so why?

[Anonymous]

[dynamicyandere]

1. Emotionally Abusive & Uncooperative
2. Disloyal & Uncooperative
3. Poor Chemistry & Poor Commitment
4. Manipulative & Uncooperative


The reoccurring theme has been uncooperative — specifically, when it comes to conflict resolution and resolving issues and problems in the relationship.


These women I’ve dated were uncomfortable having those hard conversations necessary to resolve conflicts and did not put effort into fixing issues in the relationship. They would sweep things under the rug and pretend that the problems weren’t there, instead of facing them together and working through them with me like an emotionally mature adult.


I’ve had 3 other long-term relationships other than the 3 above, who didn’t have the same issues. 1 was a mutual decision. 1 they broke up with me. And 1, I’m still with (been going strong for 5 years).

[dynamicyandere]

Well-developed conflict-resolution skills are very very important.

[Asker]

I've been through this it sucks

[dynamicyandere]

For sure. And what sucks more is that they can tell you everything you want to hear, but you don’t actually get to assess their true conflict resolution skills until your first argument. Which may only be after 6 months of dating.

[Anonymous]

She was mentally and physically abusive. Being with her was exhausting. She didn't take the break up well. At first she told me if I left her she would kill herself, when that didn't work, she told people that I was physically abusive.

[Asker]

... that's crazy

[Opinion Owner]

I look at it as a learning experience. I know what red flags to look out for, and I'm very happy in my current relationship.
I also appreciate the people who stuck around and didn't blindly believe her. Learned a lot about some people who I once considered my freinds.

[Asker]

I went through something simpler but with friends

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry to hear that

[Anonymous]

Since she started taking classes after work she would come home late, and then studied more on her desk until late in the night.

I basically had to do all the cooking/homework and other chores for two persons during the work week while working full time myself. When she came home, I would already be in bed because having to work very early.

I supported her at start to further her education but started to feel neglected. On weekends we would visit family or do something with friends toghether not really having alone time either.

When I spoke to her about this, she would confront me with that I agreed on supporting her trough this, which is true. When we had time toghether she would always be to tired to go out/ do activities or at least have sex. It always ended with her falling asleep while watching a movie in my arms.

This went on for 2 years when I kinda started to loose all interest in her. When I realized that I started to have daydreams about beeing with other women and wanted to feel having someones attention again, I dumped her.

[Anonymous]

Yes, found out she was a pedo

[Asker]

Tf gow

[Opinion Owner]

She tried seducing my teenage brother

[Asker]

Wow wow

[Opinion Owner]

But the mf fell for it lolol

[Asker]

She slept with him

[Opinion Owner]

I caught them
She was tied up lol

[Asker]

Sad

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[Opinion Owner]

I mean my brother tied her up
They were doing some weird bondage stuff lol

[Asker]

Oooo kinky

[Opinion Owner]

Yep, bro was choking her too lol
Anyways I dumped her and stopped talking to him

[Asker]

He's a teenage forgive him

[Opinion Owner]

I mean I thought him these stuff and he did it on my girl mahn !

[Asker]

How old is he

[Opinion Owner]

He was 15 when this happened

[Asker]

Yea young forgive him

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah maybe I'll
I mean man at least he could've invited me lol

[Asker]

That would have been funny

[Opinion Owner]

I won't let him fck though
I would've asked him to pin her hands as I fcked her
She had a rape fantasy anyways

[Anonymous]

Nono I haven’t