Do guys even like girls like me anymore?

[Warrior_98]

I'm someone that doesn't have much of an experience in the dating world really. Though I've had plenty of chances but I'm not interested. Also, I'm saving myself for myself. I'm a quite, and simple person who's down to earth.

Are girls like me boring to guys?

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**I'm saving myself for marriage

[BoopBoopBeep]

Haha... look around the boards here. That's what a lot of guys want. You aren't going to meet one just sitting in your room though.

[Warrior_98]

wdym?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Women complain they can't find a man. I ask them where they're looking and get some dumb shite like "well my friends know I'm single."

It's a straight forward question. Where are you attempting to meet a man?

[Warrior_98]

I don't know Maybe randomly somewhere.. i have a crush on a guy friend rn

[Warrior_98]

maybe something can become of it one day hehe

[BoopBoopBeep]

So you're doing nothing to actually try but still want to bemoan that nobody is interested in you?

Go join a club. Volunteer for a cause you believe in. Join the Friends of the Museum or something. Support the local sports teams. Do charity races. Whatever, it doesn't matter, just take accountability for where you're at and plan how to get to where you want to be. Do this and you'll meet people with similar interests and one of them may be a man.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've had crushes on my friends before and they've had crushes on me. If you don't say something it's not going to happen because guys can't read your mind and this isn't a hollywood romcom.

[Warrior_98]

noo it's not that I'm not making any efforts. I do a lot of extra curricular stuff apart from studies like sports and public speaking etc. I play sports with my crush/friend everyday.
I feel shy actually I don't know what to express myself yk!!

[Warrior_98]

And I've seen so many guys like toxic loud girls who are nothing but trouble. I don't know how to entrap a man like those girls lol I'm too dumb

[BoopBoopBeep]

Men like to F those women. Some men put up with unduly high quantities of their shite because they don't think they'll easily find better sex. Those women aren't getting rings.

Are the sports you play coed?

[Warrior_98]

I don't know about that. I find that men love these sort of expressive girls a lot. I dont know if its just sex. While I'm too shy :((((

Yes. I play basketball and badminton

[Warrior_98]

i don't even understand when someone's flirting with me and how to respond. how to make a guy like me. I don't know!!

[Warrior_98]

Sometimes i think my crush is flirting but I don't know if he is. He's so weird. I wish he'd be more direct.

[BoopBoopBeep]

What have you done to indicate that you are receptive to his flirting heavier?

See my earlier point about mind reading.

Regarding the toxic women, I would venture an educated guess that I have slept with more of them than you have, and have spoken about the "why" other men I know have chosen to do so. None of us were buying engagement rings.

[slatyb]

"Also, I'm saving myself for myself." Is this a religious thing for you? Most men aren't going to be willing to wait until marriage.

[Berethor]

While less common nowadays, there is still guys that want to marry a virgin girl.

[BourbonAndBacon]

You are high value to good men. The men who don't appreciate you aren't worth your time

[Anonymous]

Yes! Women like you are rare today, and are considered the highest value women of all by guys serious about finding a bride.

Don't change! I hope you find a good man who is worthy of you.

[JHAYES317]

The saving yourself for marriage thing isn’t gonna fly for most guys, but maybe if you find an asexual guy they won’t care. Or a devout Christian guy.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm a straight, hypersexual, atheist virgin saving myself for marriage.
We actually do exist.

[JHAYES317]

*Most guys

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm also saving myself for marriage, but I can't say if you're boring or not, because you didn't mention your hobbies, interests, talents, skills, or anything else about you.

[NewgodOmega]

No
Guys Hate all women these days
Mgtow is rising and it's unstoppable
No one can stop the future

[love_conquers_lust]

Shy girls can be like those elusive deer. Some of them are so skittish it's hard not too scare them off.

[Anonymous]

"I've had plenty of chances but I'm not interested". Gee, I can't imagine why that would be a turnoff to a guy.😆

[Anonymous]

Boring? Aww no , wish I could give a hug

[Warrior_98]

thats sweet of you

[Opinion Owner]

My wife was and kind of is just like what you described above
You guys are too sweet to not fall for you!
I can't get enough of hugging her lol