because if they did they be look as if they are a creepy old guy or as a pervert. some guys are just not willing to admit that they have the hots for you or not willing to just come up and talk to you.. He is an idea i done this many time i just go up to the person who stared at me and then look to the grown and started up a conversation with them and hope they respond. I do this all the time and when I see a beautiful woman i attract too i continue to stare and then i go up and be bold and adventurous and start up a conversation and talk to them and I have over 45 women as friends that talk to this just daddy here and think I am so much of a good personally and such a good listener that girls want something to do with this 52 year old man who is not a creepy one.. some times you just got to go up and if you see a guy looking at you do what you think you should or be like me being bold and Adventurous and then you have guys left and right.. take it from me this old dad we know what we talking about.. I meet young women all the time and they love it i am such a gentleman to them.
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- they rate you highly attractive, and so they're intimidated.
- they generally lack confidence with women
- your dress or mannerisms are those of a "taken" person rather than a single person
- you are shy or otherwise don't smile, look people in the eye, or seem to be engaged with the people around you, which puts off a vibe that says "I'm not interested - leave me alone."
- you just aren't that guy's type (even if you're hot as hell, maybe he likes brunettes, or heavier/curvy girls, or petite girls, or really tall girls, or whatever).
no theyre busy looking at other boyz cuz theyre gay
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They probably mainly wanted to notice you, but didn't want to put effort or energy to get to know you. Maybe they have a partner or think you aren't available. Making a move on a person I've never talked to is uhh, it's hard to explain. I'd feel like why would I? I don't know her. Plus lots of guys don't want to be rejected of course. They don't want the girl to be mad or have whatever other negative reaction we can imagine.
Do you look at guys and say hi? Because if you don't then I don't really think you can expect others to.
Also, all they've heard for years is women complaining about "unwanted" attention from men and all manner of "harassment" accusations. It doesn't exactly inspire the confidence to chat up rando women.
Thank feminism? With all the famous cases of sexual assault right now mixed with the long term shaming of the ways in which men approach women, and now a lot of men just avoid women.
This is a hard time for men around the world, a time when, sadly, looking at a girl the wrong way may lead to rape accusations. Better safe than sorry when your whole life is on the line.
Perhaps they are respecting your privacy and autonomy, realizing that as a mature woman that you may initiate conversation if you desire it, instead of playing the hapless female dependent upon male attention to derive your sense of self-worth.
If we look at you it’s catcalling, escalating to sexual harassment, so I’ll take my chances with the concrete.
I have to know her and trust her to pay her any attention or look at her. Just to dangerous to show interest in this anti-male society.
How do you respond when he looks? Do you do anything? If you don't smile, or say hi or anything, put yourself in his place, you'd do the same thing right?
They r nervous and think that they wouldn't have a chance with you
Do these guys seem as attractive as you feel you are?
When we look and say something we perverts or neanderthals, when we don't look we are gays or afraid to say something. When you all woman with that feminism , choose what you want from us then we will make our moves.
i'd rather look at the ground than be labeled a creepy misogynist.
Because saying hi to a random woman on the streets is like super creepy to her?
They're probably just not interested. Don't worry there's someone out there for you.
If I see a pretty young woman I'll always look, how could a red blooded man not.
I think the internet put out a myth that every man is eager to just approach any single girl they see that's attractive.
Then you're gonna complain that they always check you out and its creepy
You're too hot for them
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