The kind of guys that are often attracted to shy women are also shy themselves, and probably aren't approaching you for the same reason you aren't approaching them.
Just go talk to them instead of being all "aw woe is me!" seriously sitting around wallowing in your own self-pity doesn't do anything. You say guys don't wanna talk to you, but you never talk to them first - you don't see a connection there? Not all men are comfortable walking up to a random chick and shooting the breeze. Sorry, but suck it up and talk to a dude.
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It's possible that a girl can be so timid that it's unattractive. You come off as disinterested or snobby. That's how everyone sees you.
Try reaching out. Guys your age are terrible at reading subtle signs. You need to be obvious of you like a guy.
i have the same issue, they stare, smile, wink, say hi and try to talk to me a couple of times and than that's it, they give up
which pisses me off! I don't know why they becoe disinterested all of the sudden and I really wanna know how to keep them interested :S
i wouldn't say he's intimidated. more like he's awkward around you because you don't encourage him
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Eh, no. As a general rule, shy girls don't intimidate anyone, anywhere at any time. Ever.
Shy girls don't look interesting. In a club, they're usually standing next to a wall, sipping their non-alcoholic drink, afraid to dance and afraid of not being asked to dance and afraid of being asked to dance.
That just doesn't interest a guy. A guy doesn't look at a shy girl and think "Wow, I want to get to know her. I wonder what her story is?"meh don't worry about guys your still young, you got your whole life to do that
Because not every guy has confidence. Second, quiet girls tend to not get noticed like the quiet guys.
Shy is easy to misinterpret as standoffish.
Alot of guys have confidence issues of there own.
That's just how it is
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