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My crush is so much quicker and smarter than me and gets better Grades. I ignored him flirting with me because I feel inferior to him since he is also very handsome, sophisticated and athletic.
Did you ever meet a woman you were very attracted to but just didn’t find intelligent enough to keep up with you?
I'll answer this question indirectly. In high school, there was a really good looking guy who was very smart and opinionated. In English class, he would always take the lead in discussions about what was read, along with another person or two. I was the quiet one, never saying anything unless I was asked. I felt inferior in a way, although I felt most of the books we read were dark and dull (Joseph Conrad's, "Heart of Darkness"). So, I never thought this guy would like me, but it seemed like he did. He used to look at me a lot in the hallway, hold the door for me and say something trivial, and once I saw him at a classroom door window staring at me as I passed along in the hallway on the way to the bathroom I just got the feeling he liked me. But I wasn't impressed with him because he seemed too different from me and too popular with the girls who all had crushes on him. Besides, my father was especially strict with his daughters. Today, that high school man is a politician in the Bronx, NY, has done a lot for the area, I was told by another high school friend still living in NY. So, he was intelligent, but I had different reasons I could not go out with him.
Today, an intelligent man is a super turn on for me. He doesn't have to be that attractive, as long as he is attractive to me.
You'd be surprised, but your intelligence doesn't necessarily make you attractive to men. Just like your career, or your income, or your achievements -- these things to us are like our figurine collection to you. Women simply make a very dumb mistake of projecting their own wants and needs unto men, thinking we're seeking the same from you, as women tend to lack empathy (not sympathy).
Now, if you're an absolute retard with zero brain cells, then there's just no point in keeping you around after sleeping with you after a few times; at best to simply keep you as a side piece for a while until you become too annoying. However, we'd still go for it... most of the time.
However, if you're not particularly intelligent, yet not totally braindead, then that's not really a dealbreaker for us. You see, women seek for reasons to disqualify a man -- even for reasons as shallow as not liking our smartphone or our socks. We, men, quite otherwise seek reasons to qualify a girl. She's not particularly intelligent? Not a problem: we want to be a portal for women to experience the world through us, and in the process mold a girl into a woman for our individual liking. Therefore improving your intelligence is something we'd gladly work on, as humans tend to get smarter while communicating with someone smarter, and we won't really judge a woman for being less smart or intelligent. It's not even nearly as much "ick" it is to us as it is to women.
yeah maybe but have you ever met a girl that was just too dull and predictable to fall in love with?
We don't fall in love in a way women do. When we try to get a girl, we do it for one and only one reason: sex. Not because you're intelligent, funny, have charisma and everything else women look for in men. You're good-looking? Okay, we want to have sex with you, hence why we even interact with women.
Here's the kicker that women either don't know, or hate to admit: *after* we have sex with a woman do we even begin to evaluate whether it's worth sticking around. Hence why there's a lot of ghosting after sex: a guy decided that a girl isn't really worth being a girlfriend, so he either outright dumps her after banging her, or he can keep a girl for a while (for sexual access) while ALREADY deciding in his mind he'll never stick with her, so after a few weeks, months or even years, when a girl will bring up "so who are we" conversation, it will be a call for a guy to stop pretending and it's time to leave.
And again, "too dull" or "too predictable" are female projections onto what men seek in women, as women lack empathy. Women don't know AND don't care what men want/seek in women, therefore women delude themselves into thinking we probably are seeking for same things women are seeking. We aren't. Things you've mentioned, especially "too predictable" in a woman, are actually good for us, as we don't want more chaos in our lives. It's women that seek excitement.
When women look at men, they think "how he makes my life better?". We evaluate women via question "is she making my life worse?". Thus an unpredictable woman is in no way, shape or form a good thing for long-term relations, as women are already irrational and erratic enough due to their hormones and emotions.
As for being "too dull", again; we want to be a portal for a woman to explore the world through us. Women tend to "absorb" personality of their men over time, thus if a guy is intelligent, a woman will look up to him. If she looks up to him, eventually she'll learn from him. And we're more than happy to be teachers for women, while women tend to hate to teach men and want us "pre-assembled". So you're seeking an issue where there's none.
As for "falling in love", we fall in love differently and over longer period of time, for much different reasons. She isn't annoying, isn't an agent of chaos in our live, she doesn't nag, she can cook a meal, can shut up when necessary, and uses her superior social awareness that are innate in women to support us on our mission? That's love and wife material right there.
While unpredictable, chaotic, erratic, overly energetic women are for temporary fun only, until they turn elderly and there's a fresh meat on a block. You can find millions of them on tiktok bashing and crying about men.
i meant predictable as in not stimulating, boring conversations, no banter etc. if you dont care about personality and intellect then why dont you consider every attractive girl that is good in bed relationship material? i think intelligence has a huge impact on compatibility
Again; we are built different, thus we react differently and proceed differently. If a girl doesn't have major deal breaking characteristics (such as being a nagging hag, ran-through hoe, loud obnoxious bitch which is nowadays called "boss babe", retarded feminist that won't cook etc.), then what *you* (as a woman) may consider "deficiencies" in a person regardless of gender, aren't necessarily "deficiencies" in our eyes when it comes down to women. Pause and re-read this sentence to get a grasp on how we are different.
We don't really expect stimulating, exciting conversations with women, as there's no real burden of performance on women to be... Well, stimulating, exciting and/or intelligent, as men don't care as much about these things in opposite gender like women do, unless you're totally braindead. And for us (men) it is NOT a dealbreaker. It is a dealbreaker in eyes of women only.
I repeat once again: women tend to like it when a man is intelligent, among many other things. Men like when we can be a portal for a woman to explore the world through us with us, hence we're more than happy to provide this "exploration", while women typically hate to teach men and strongly prefer us to be "pre-assembled". This "exploration" includes a conversation or even outright a monologue: a guy is more than happy talking for an hour non-stop, passionately explaining something to a girl so that she can learn; moreover, as he does it, she grows more fond of him in the process.
In reverse, however, we tend to get annoyed having to listen to your gender for a prolonged period of time, as you seldom have something logical to say, frequently dance around your words instead of saying something bluntly, as you don't want to sound "mean", and frequently lose chain of thought. Or we tend to dislike when you're too experienced and too intelligent, as now you're barely moldable, too stuck in your own ways -- this in general is a reminder and a testament of other men being in your life before us, which is a huge turnoff -- and there's very little we can offer to be "portal" to.
And here's the catch: if a girl likes the guy, she starts learning from him and even adapts herself to him, NOT the other way around. Thus over time you'll become more intelligent, more rational etc., and we (men) will see it as a fruit of our labor, of molding you into a woman we want.
So imagine meeting this smoking hot chick at a bar, right? She's got legs for days and an ass that could make even Hitler rise from the dead. And she's all over you, grinding her hips against yours like it's nobody's business. ﾠ
But then she opens her mouth... and out comes some seriously stupid shit. Like, we're talking @kearney_buttman levels of dumbassery here. It's such a turn off that you can feel your boner deflating faster than the Hindenburg. Now don't get me wrong, I love me some mindless bimbos in my porno flicks, but when it comes to dating? Nah bro, I need someone who can hold a conversation without sounding like they dropped out of kindergarten.
@asker I'd like to ask you, are you offended that I mentioned hindenburg and hitler just because I saw you comment in german?
I think guys don't require a woman to be intellectually exciting as much as they'd want her to be loyal, empathetic, physically attractive, and have a sense of humor (smart enough to laugh at his jokes).
There are some guys tho that do weigh more emphasis on intelligence. I would say they are the rarity. A lot of guys (and women took) don't want to be intellectually challenged when they come home, they want to be taken care of and have a place to relax with someone mostly easy going.
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No, that's never been a problem. I've never dated a girl who was, um... "slow" in the Forest Gump sense or worse, so it's not been an issue for me. I'm quite a bit above average in IQ, though there are certainly people smarter than me (and I know a couple, and have met others), and likely I've been "smarter" than most of the women I've dated, but that never mattered to me. We could always communicate, and while she might occasionally enjoy something I didn't, or didn't care about something I had an interest in, that's rarely the kind of thing that causes a problem in a relationship, at least for men.
Many, if not most, women CRAVE being with a man who is better than she is in nearly every way (taller, stronger, higher status, higher income, better educated, smarter, etc.) but men do not share this craving. We merely want a girl who is nice, sweet, feminine, and who wants us above others. That other stuff just doesn't matter to us.
@MrOracle
smart people prioritize intelligence in their partners. Dumb people don't prioritize intelligence in their partners because they wouldn't have anything in common with a dumb person. It goes beyond academics. Dumb people do things that smart people don't do. Smart people think in a way that dumb people can't. Thats why they don't tend to get along.
but misogynist would always only date women that are dumber, less intelligent, less successful than him because in his mind, the woman must be inferior to the man.
No, mainly because I only get into a relationship with a girl that I have amazing chemistry and connection with to begin with , a girl that I am attracted to that has a lot in common with me I I don’t just get into a relationship with a girl based off of her looks , it takes more than just looks for me to even consider pursuing her and wanting to be with her , so if her and I have nothing in common , I won’t waste anymore of my time with her period , I have to feel a connection with a girl for me to even consider having sex with her , if she is lying to me , she might get me in bed , but it won’t last the long haul , basically thank you for a good time but not a long time
chemistry will not sustain a marriage. you need someone with the right compatibility, lifestyle habits, decent character, compatible temperaments in order for long term marriage success.
that "in love" spark will fade as the years go by. Once it fades, you realize you're left with nothing but just incompatibility.
@Finchie40
and you don't even know how to date the right people.
if every single person you date is an asshole, there is a problem with your selection process.
Well honestly I think it's the other way around I think you are that person.
And I think you allow him to think that he is all the above because maybe you're lonely..
And you totally wrong about yourself because what I heard was a very confident smart wise woman in a lot of different ways so I wouldn't sell myself short if I was you
You shouldn’t ignore someone. They will probably loose interest. You don’t know what will happen in the end. I would go for him and ask him out before you chase him off forever.
Not really, but it does make things hard when it comes to communication. I think you are selling yourself short, though.
I dated a few women who I thought at first were very intelligent. When I realized they were very good at deception I caught on to their game.
Intelligence runs in my family. My small family's niece is a borderline genius. Her brother has a PhD in nuclear chemistry from MSU. I am educated in computer science and electronics.
At my age I am single. All I seem to attract are bimbo women who are fun for a night or two. They are not the marrying type. I no longer am interested in them or these horny women in their middle ages.
Something wrong is happing to our breeding stock of our population,
"... with an astonishing IQ of 178, British comedian Rowan Atkinson sits head and shoulders above some legends..."
Well even if that was true ( i just found that on the net ) i would never date him 😂🤣.
But without kidding.. it depends one what is important to you.
My lady is smarter, more sexy and has the greatest dark humor..
Some people say i do not fit in that picture. But there is more than meets the eye. Things even more important than above.
But the thing is... If they realy know me.. oh boy.. i maybe not fast en quick... But if i have one of those days...
I'm smart but keep mostly on the background. I can be dry, hard and my humor even darker... Almost black... That blows everyone away.
And that is what my lady likes about me.. the unannounced kick ass dark remarks. 🤣😂
I have a friend who is the epitome of "dumb blonde." She's got her own floral business, is decently attractive, fit, B-cup, etc. but after a while, having a conversation with her is intensely boring and you feel like you're carrying the entire burden of the interaction. If she developed her social skills and curiosity, I'd have dated her YEARS ago. However, I'm smart enough to know I can't change her or her interests.
No, you don't have to be more intelligent, but it sure helps when know how to have a conversation, be a pleasant person, compliment him sometimes. Even if he is much more intelligent than you, he can be attracted to your feminine qualities. Bonus points if you have interests in the "THINGS" he's interested in.
Remember that generally, women like discussing people and men like discussing things.
My second relationship was like this. But I can kinda understand how you feel. The first woman I fell in love with was very intelligent. I consider myself very intelligent, but she was more so. She had a stronger passion for learning new things as well. She was also physically very attractive and witty and funny. I felt like she was out of my league, but she was still into me. Don't let feelings of inadequacy stop you from taking a chance on love. What I did instead was let her inspire me to be better.
Lack of intelligence shows up in different ways. Like being naive (relationship situations, like wearing very few clothing and going into a club not expecting to get hit on like come on now) , or being patronizing or not listening to what I am saying, or pushing the conversation to something way more bottom of the barrel.
Being excessively religious and not questioning what they have been told. (inverse of that as well super atheist to the point of insulting other poeple opinions)
As long as you have a curiousity about what he has to say and show respect to him (as he should respect you as well ) then I think it should be fine.
I can be curious and naive at once
Naive in the sort of sense of like relationship skill naive. Dont flirt with other guys when your in a commited relationship. Dont a wear a bathing suit to a funeral. Like I don't know how to help such situations.
I am trying my best to summarize what I am saying. Try to understand the vibe I am presenting instead of just nitpicking one little detail.
Calm down :D
Naive to think saying calm down would help in this situation. (The appropriate response would either be, Yes I understand or no I dont understand, here is where I dont understand. Or here is what I think to the best idea of what the user (myself ) is trying to say. )
Calm down is completely pointless.
Hahaha ok calm down then
Oh no 🙊
I wouldn't worry in your case, educational success isn't everything. Furthermore you think of yourself as dumb or less intelligent, thats not a trait or reflection that dumb people posses bec it makes you question yourself and enables you to find ways to improve on.
Yeah but I think you agree that some people are just quicker and more intelligent than others by nature and if the gap is too big two people just wouldn’t vibe since they experience everything so differently.
He is gifted and I am a lesser mortal.
Well with how you view yourself, I doubt you have a chance. you're basically already branding yourself as unworthy and haven't even tried or done shit.
My ex was a pretty naive person, yet I loved her to bits. It really doesn't matter that much, its how the mix is in the end. She possesed far greater social intelligence than me for example and I envied the effort she was able to put into things to be able to learn or master it.
I never thought someone wasn't intelligent enough to date me. At worst my attraction to a woman drops if I see we have too different ways of thinking and especially if she can't think by herself, that is she's too dependent from social circle/media opinions.
About you, it seems to me you are sabotaging yourself. Think about it: he is flirting so he likes you to some degree, you are putting in all the doubts.
'Inferior' is a word I despise. Nobody should feel that way. Relationships in which one partner is more intelligent, handsome, succesful etc can often work just as fine as the other ones. It always requires a level of understanding of course, but if that isn't a problem, then there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Yea, there was this girl who looked like total bad bitch but whenever she started talking I'd be astonished over and over again about how stupid and submissive she actually was. We limited our contact eventually, because she got back to her husband and were meeting only for fun, but if she didn't get back with her husband, I think things wouldn't work out between us anyway
Depends if they are attractive and boring probably not but I've always valued intelligence above a lot of traits but being funny of affable are also attractive traits. With that said there are guys who would date someone just because they're hot plenty of intelligent people of either sex date people who are less well informed than they are.
Not a girl but a guy. Met him in a sauna and couldn't keep my eyes off him and he noticed. We went on a few dates and hooked up for a while but the dude couldn't hold a conversation about anything but college basketball. He didn't know who Dick Cheney was (during the time he was vice president) when I mentioned some news story about him. He thought Elton John was a member of the Beatles. Dumb as a box of rocks. I couldn't stand it, even though he was great in bed...
Yes. Being intelligent in itself doesn’t make someone a nice person or make me want to be with them. There are plenty of unpleasant people that I can’t stand who also happen to be intelligent.
Also, “opposites attract” as the saying goes. Sometimes you don’t want to be with someone who is too similar to yourself. If you are sharp, intelligent, etc. you don’t need your partner to bring those qualities to the relationship because you are already supplying them. You want someone who possesses the qualities you don’t have.
And finally, the honest truth is that if a guy finds a girl attractive, he isn’t going to care at all if she intelligent or not. It’s not high up on our list of priorities. In fact, we don’t have a list of priorities, like women do. We just fall in love. It’s about feelings. We don’t stop to question if someone’s IQ is high enough before we fall for them.
I have, yes. But that is extremely rare. It takes a really dim bulb to make me think that way about someone. I'm talking really dumb. The kind of person who just doesn't even have the inclination to think. The thought to think wouldn't occur to them.
I can generally approach people where ever they are at, but they need to be able to process information. I've only met 2 or 3 women like that.
when i was in my first year college i studied hard because of my crush who is smart 😂😂😂😂 i basically force myself to study. i think i have fear that i get depression and then will kill myself due to heartbreak that's why i am a slave to my heart
speaking of intelligence i am very insecure of this. i think men love intelligent women
You would hate me then. I’d tell you to reach for the stars and that you have the power to do anything.
Most people are much more intelligent than they think, but rather than exercise the brain they watch TV, lounge around, etc. I used to sling drinks and think I was an idiot, I learned about stocks, real estate, and geo arbitrage and now I'm wealthy. Not a genius but no longer think I'm. an idiot.
Don't put him on a pedestal either till you know. him better.
I want to say yes, but when you like someone you tend to ascribe ‘potential’ to the. ‘They’re really better on the inside, I can bring it out of them’ sort of thing. In retrospect, they weren’t or we might still be together. Despite that, you shouldn’t bring yourself down. It’s rarely about being book smart. It’s about being curious and wanting to understand and learn more. That’s easy when you’re attracted to someone. Guys also like to teach girls.
Do you seriously do this? This is low key rejection.
Nope. I could get excited with any of them. Personality wise was another story. There are different forms of intelligence. I’m reminded of this piece:
https://ljiljanahavran.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/love_is_a_fallacy.pdf
Yes. But I also dated a woman who I found endearing because of her ditzyness. She was aware of it and embraced it. She also had the ability to laugh at her own ditzyness. I will add however that women and men who lack intelligence but try to get you to buy they are intelligent are annoying as fuck.
How was she ditzy? Can you tell me an example?
She about rolled her car driving out of my driveway.
She would frequently ask questions with very obvious answers.
She would ask completely random questions like "What do think aliens do for fun?" out of nowhere.
She was always late because she could not estimate time. Things that would take a hour she thought she could do in 10 minutes.
She rarely knew what I was talking about. It could be current events, history, tech, etc. She didn't have a knowledge bank to really understand most things.
Despite all this she was by no means dumb. Given her ditzyness and her fun bubbly outgoing personality it made her someone that everyone liked being around.
I dated a phd student who was attending Cornell U. from a family that owns a vineyard and race horses. Boy did I not feel good enough. I wasn’t able to connect with his level of sophistication at that time.
but he accepted you!
@strateguy632 didn’t ended up marrying him… so not really… we dated 3, months.
WHO did he marry instead?
Not sure. Once we ended the relationship we didn’t have any more connections.
But with everything, I learn from the best…at this point of my life…I too have that life style…however I, my kids do not have his intelligence.
He went out partying the night before the SAT exam…he got full score.
Wonder why he was accepted to the phd program to Cornell? Lol they are the future scientist, doctors, researchers that make world decisions.
Just because you are rich , doesn't mean you are smart. Look at the Biden's
Men don't marry women because of their intelligence contrary to what they might say.
Men mostly don't have those criteria actually it's women who need men to be smarter and richer.
Don't bring yourself down lol somebody is smarter than someone else what really matters is can you be a good companion to each other!
I've had experiences with women who were attractive but not intelligent, but I've also been with women who were the opposite; intelligent but not ideally attractive. There's issues with either extreme, obviously. Personally, I prefer more of a mix of the two aspects, but a little more towards the attractive side over the intelligent side.
Yes but I did not see them in a diminish mental capacity, I just had to explain things more often which is cool with me because she's learning and I enjoy helping others so was actually good seeing people learn something new or better understand
people's preferences for partners can vary widely. It's important to remember that intelligence is just one aspect of compatibility in a relationship. Many people value qualities like kindness, shared interests, and emotional connection just as much as intelligence. If you have feelings for someone, it's worth getting to know them better and seeing if you connect on different levels beyond just academics or looks.
Is he smarter? Or better educated.
Education, grades, etc. Doesn't mean smarter.
Congress is a good example of the ability to over educate idiots, over half of them have college degrees, and room temperature I. Q. s...
Grades measure motivation, not intelligence.
If he's making jokes that you don't get, he might be smarter than you. But he might like you anyways.
I've been on a few days with someone like that. It can work short term, but long term didn't work out. That being said, this person was easy below my intelligence level to the point it was hard to converse with her as the only thing she did was giggle it she to what I was saying, she had basically no thoughts or ideas of her own. If you can contribute to the conversation and be your own person with original thoughts and ideas, then this shouldn't be an issue.
Yes, I worked at a company with about a half-dozen girls who were reasonably attractive but dumb as dirt. Was not tempted, though I did go party with them sometimes.
I've known some girls who were just boring, and I wasn't interested in them because of that.
Intelligence and smartness is really important for me when it comes to searching for a girlfriend. But it doesn't matter if she is decent, have good moral, ethics and family values. I would definitely date her. Even if she is intelligent that is an added advantage but that is not a necessity. It is better not to compare each other's intelligence level, education, hobbies, salaries, and earning capacity if we want a healthy relationship.
Thinking about someone, I kinda did. But considering how you talk, that was the case with everyone. But was that a problem? Not really. I'm just 27 though and I'm still gathering experience. The more I will go through life, the more it will be important though I believe. But I don't work like everyone so pay attention to other's feelings about that.
Yes, I've come across this once or twice. It's kind of tough sometimes because my humor is on the witty side. It gets tough after awhile having to explain things.
Many times in college. A few when I was between deployments and a little "less discerning". It always had a shelf life, but it was fun along the way.
In my original Hanseatic culture, there is a saying that translates to something like:
''Dumb fucks well''
Excitement is what 'you' take from it.
haste nicht gesagt :D
Aber gedacht :D
Certainly. I have plenty intellectual stimuli in my life. I wouldn't feel like there's something missing if she didn't provide any. Quite frankly, I even prefer it this way. I hope this doesn't sound offensive, but the lack or stimulation is actually quite relaxing and pleasant. It makes downtime with her very refreshing. I also find great satisfaction and fulfillment in the notion that I'm able to help and provide for someone who might not be as intellectually suited.
It's always nice to know that dynamic is sought after, I know it's not for everyone.
She was a bartender. She was funny and sweet and very pretty but she was not a rocket scientist. My best friend and me had a discussion about the dumbest girl we ever dated. She won hands down
I wouldn't say intelligence "excites" me, well sort of.. Smart girls are kinda sexy.. But as long as we're compatible, and she goes along with my silliness, then yeah I would.. I like girls that are kinda goofy really..
Long ago, my eldest brother once dated a girl who looked hot.
However, every time she spoke, he got so turned off because she was clearly an airhead.
" Not intelligent enough to excite you"? Not sure what you mean? She would not have to work in the Jet Propulsion lab to excite me or be a chemical engineer.
My boyfriend is very smart and charismatic. I'm not sure why he feels we match completely when I'm dumb as bricks. Our communication lacks because of my dumbness but he doesn't seem to care at all. It's concerning.
No. Once dated a girl who thought new Mexico was part of Mexico, she was sweet and had a killer body
she wasn't wrong , new mexico IS the capital city of Mexico like new york city. that is what i would respond.
No, because I steer clear of mentally handicapped people. IDC if a chick is generally dumb.
yes. twice. we didn't date for very long. like a a date or two before i realized it just wasn't going to work
I don't even get to the dating stage if the woman is not interesting to talk to. But that's just my preference some guys might not mind.
To be honest, it's not super important to me that a woman I date have some amazing intellectual or academic pedigree. That's nice and all, but if she's hot, nice and fun, that's going to win every time.
Every.
Single.
Time!
How attractive are you, by the way? And are you nice and fun?
Average
So average all around? From your question it sounded like you thought of yourself as higher up in attractiveness than intelligence.
Apparently the guy thinks I’m attractive otherwise he wouldn’t always look at me when I’m not paying attention
Well--that's a good sign!
I have not yet in my life. Unless she has some neurological condition, then no matter how much "smarter" I might think myself, she will know things that I do not.
Yes I a way. She was good looking but an air head. The relationship didn't last long but the sex was fantastic. Just got to the point I couldn't be with somebody that dumb.
What did she do or say that made you think she was dumb?
I have but it was all about sex and not much more
Don’t sell yourself short, girl. If a man shows an interest in you then he finds you attractive. That’s enough reason to want to date someone.
Yeah, it's awkward 'cuz we have nothing to talk about. Those kinds of women are only good for sexual relationships and maybe gossiping/sharing secrets with
Yes, I once had a girlfriend for a short time. She looked great and we had a lot of fun in bed, but besides that, she was stupid. Didn't work for long either.
Yeah, my first girlfriend, but I stayed with her for a long time since I had no experience before that
@Jdotbyvb it was fine, especially since she was cute
Why did you break up?
She was immature and annoying at the time and we were young but still old enough and legal, it lasted an over a year but I had nothing to compare with since it was a first relationship. Looking back I probably should’ve stayed with her compared to all my other relationships
How was she immature? Can you give me an example?
@Jdotbyvb I guess they just mean not on their level
At the time she was 18 and just seemed childish at times with the way she acted
@Jdotbyvb maybe they don’t get certain jokes or don’t have enough life experience to understand certain things, it could be any number of things
@Jdotbyvb Yeah it’s normal to me, I like younger women anyway and still looking
@Jdotbyvb I’m sure you won’t have a problem , being a woman it’s a little easier and guys don’t have unrealistic standards normally
@Jdotbyvb ok, and you can send me my soulmate 😊
@Jdotbyvb unless you like an older Guy like me 😊
@Jdotbyvb if you’re attractive they will, I would go for someone your age
@Jdotbyvb Yeah maybe, if you want you can private message me
@Jdotbyvb follow me back, you’re only level one and can’t message anyone yet until xper2
And I'll answer it directly. Men down - date... so we all do that to a certain extent. Women always up-date so a question like this is very common place. In other words its pretty much status quo for men. So , don't worry about it.
"dumb" gitls are fun until they let you hit it. But in the long run. Uh, NO, it's also embarrassing to introduce them to friends and family when they can't even tie their shoes... I like when I actually can have a conversation with the girl.
not answering your question as i dont represent guy, but as a woman, if man is lacking intelligence, regardless how good looking they are, it is just a turn off for me
@rex002 i would
Sometimes I feel dumb, sometimes I feel smart. You put me up against trump, and I'll feel like a rocket scientist, you put me up against a rocket scientist, ill feel like trump
Isn't that what most women are. I have only found women in 30+ range to be worth calling intelligent and even then a lot of them seem to be out of touch with reality 😞
MOST? stop divided by gender like that. that is bad sexism.
@strateguy632 I am not being sexist here. Just telling you about what has happened with me. It's not like I hate girls just saying they can be very immature
you wrote "most" and despite you are entitled to feel that, but writing about "most of any gender" is bad sexism based on gender. here worse insulting "most" women. think of a half billion Chinese women but you think "most" women are.
@strateguy632 get a life.
A lot of super smart guys like regular girls
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