Who still finds marriage wonderful and can’t wait to find the right spouse?

[PositiveFlight]

Do guys and girls here still see marriage as honorable? Are you excited to meet, fall in true love, be romantic, and marry?

Yes, can’t wait to fall in love and marry

Yes I want marriage, but I want to put it off

No, not interested in marriage

Already in love and/or married

[Anonymous]

I'm not interested. I mean I believe in marriage and think it's the best thing for a couple, for their children and for society. But today marriage has essentially been destroyed because women no longer honor their wedding vows and have no sense of commitment. Half of marriages end in divorce and it is women who initiate them in 80% of cases. I don't want to subject myself to that. It's not worth the risk and cost to men anymore.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Marriage is wonderful, it's a challenge most days. We are proud of the hard moments and wonderful moments that we have been together for in all of our years as a couple.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Questions like this remind you to look beyond the person that you wake up next to every day, and remember the love you have for each other, rather than simply noting their presence.

[sparklycoconut]

i have a neutral perspective on marriage and i find it difficult to understand how it can be described as honorable.

[Apple1996]

Already married but wasn't planning on it since marriage is just a piece of paper imho

[Amara_09]

I am not for marriage. I don’t believe in marriage.


What I do believe in is that there are multiple men that I find myself compatible with and the list gets lesser when I find the actual right ones who aren’t interested in marriage and serious things just like me.




Everyone likes something eventually and we all know what we like so yeah, I am not sure I can be with one person for the rest of my life……because I can’t commit and I don’t want to because I do not believe in that.

[Joshydavid25]

I haven't found anybody yet, and in fact have never even been close to it... That being said, I still can't wait to find the right woman for me and fall in love and get married and maybe have children.

[NathanDavis]

I've never ever had a negative image of marriage in the first place

[Ironyizu463]

there’s so few men who would even say that lol so it’s hard to keep hope but that’s what I want too.

[PositiveFlight]

Don’t lose hope. Keep your head up. Remember your own self worth. Someone is out there who will cherish, honor, love, and marry you.

[Ironyizu463]

That’s beautiful, I sure hope so! Are you looking for someone to marry?

[PositiveFlight]

Thank you 🙏 Yes marriage is very important to me too. Always open and looking. But not desperate either haha 😆

To me marriage is honorable and beautiful. Its the most crowning. But like you said. It takes the right person who has a fundamental understanding of honor, love, respect, and commitment.

[Ironyizu463]

I like the idea of arranged marriages where the family choses candidates for their daughter or son. Wish we had that in the West. I also heard those marriages last longer than our Western “love” marriages.

[PositiveFlight]

I’ve heard similar statistics and agree with you. I live in the western United States and we have marriage traditions that are a little different than the rest of the world as well. Some families do arranged marriages and others don’t. I think the key which ever way it’s done is that the man and woman (which is what constitutes marriage) are both genuinely in love. When there is true love involved and selflessness toward each other, and the foundation rooted in God, marriage is unbreakable. It lasts. And it’s meant to last forever

[Ironyizu463]

Are you evangelical Christian? Because I am. A lot of guys today are liberal and non-religious sadly.

[PositiveFlight]

I’m independent but very Christian. I love to study deep doctrine and biblical history. Very fascinated by it. Its very faith promoting the deeper I go. So much of the ancient side of Christianity has been sanitized from the world over the centuries. So much left out. I love learning, my mind and soul feels like a sponge 😂

I wholeheartedly agree with you. So many guys and girls especially in younger generations like gen-z seem to be very devoid of religion and faith in general. Everything has become so secular and humanist. It’s very alarming how much liberalism there is nowadays which is absolutely anti-Christ. Much of it being taught by the education system unfortunately

[Ironyizu463]

That’s interesting, about your studies about the Bible.

Oh no definitely in schools you are the enemy if you are Christian or not promoting liberal ideas. For sure. They have their own quasi religion going on there.

[PositiveFlight]

Yes, for sure. 100% agree

[rachel776]

i might have found mine, too soon to tell. if he wins a Stanley Cup maybe we'll reevaluate 🤷‍♀️ jk

[Anonymous]

Of course I consider marriage wonderful. But when you get to be my age there really isn't women worth marrying anymore. If they exist they're married already, not surprisingly.