I don't know if he’s trying to get my attention anf is interested. He constantly views my stories within minutes of me posting them.
He often views my instagram stories within minutes. Should I reach out? does he seem interested?
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It's possible that he's interested, but viewing Instagram stories doesn't always indicate someone's level of interest. If you'd like to find out more, consider reaching out with a friendly message or engage in a conversation to see if he responds positively.
He’s also liked some of my stories too (only 3 of them though) . I’m scared that if I reach out and he wasn’t that interested in me
Liking a few of your stories can be a positive sign, but it's still not a definitive indicator of someone's interest. If you're worried about reaching out, you could start with a casual conversation or comment on one of his stories or posts to gauge his response. This way, you can test the waters without making a big commitment.
I was thinking if I message him ” heyy, I noticed that you’ve been viewing my stories and I was wondering do we know each other from somewhere?”
I don’t if it’s too much since he came to view my stories without him following me and I then requested to follow him
Your message sounds friendly and non-invasive. It's a good way to start a conversation and find out more about his intentions. If he has been viewing your stories and accepted your follow request, it's reasonable to express your curiosity in a friendly manner. Go ahead and send that message, and see how he responds.
So you don’t think it’s too forward?
It doesn't come across as too forward, but it's always a good idea to be open and friendly when reaching out to someone. Your message expresses curiosity without being overly aggressive, so it should be fine for starting a conversation. Just be prepared for his response, whether it's positive or not.
by the way this same guy I followef him last year. Aftet couple of days he removed me from my instagram. At that time I didn’t have pictures of me on instagram other than ny profile pic. Aftet over a year ago he came to view my stories lol. Maybe he doesn’t remember that he removed me in the past
It's possible that he may not remember the previous interaction or that he simply changed his mind. People's actions on social media can vary for various reasons, and sometimes they might not even recall previous connections. If you're interested in reconnecting, you can still reach out and see how the conversation goes.
Nowdays is very hard to tell but i'd say you could try a couple of times to get his attention just to confirm it, doesn't need to be anything fancy
This has happened more than just couple of times
I was thinking if I message him ” heyy, I noticed that you’ve been viewing my stories and I was wondering do we know each other from somewhere?”
I don’t if it’s too much since he came to view my stories without him following me and I then requested to follow him
well see if he answers and act accordingly
It doesn't mean anything for me, I wouldn't do anything