He always looks at my snap stories, but he doesn't initiate any contact. I'm not sure if this means he is interested. Am I reading too much into it?

[Anonymous]

Please help me out guys. Should I just give up on this guy... ..

[LordSnuggles]

Honestly I don't get why people keep being up snap stories. I watch those stories of anyone on my friends list even those I don't talk to. It doesn't mean anything. And he's not contacting probably because he doesn't want to. When a guy wants something, he goes all out to get it.

[Asker]

"sometimes guys want u to text first for reassurance that its an "ok" to talk or simply that they want to feel like u actually do want to talk"

What about this?

[LordSnuggles]

Please don't take dating advice from a 15 year old. And only young boys think like that because they haven't developed sufficient confidence. Adult men, the kind you want, will talk to you if they want. Nothing says you can't message him if you're in the mood but typically it isn't a good sign if a guy can't be bothered to even say hi.

[Asker]

This guy use to check me out in public. He seems kinda shy. So even shy guys would eventually dm girl if he was interested in a her?

[LordSnuggles]

A shy guy would sooner DM you than approach you openly in person. You have to ask yourself if you really want a guy so shy he won't even talk to you. I mean, are you then going to have to be the one who asks him out, ask him to be your boyfriend, etc... You know?

[Asker]

Do those guys exist lol?

[LordSnuggles]

Uh, yeah. I mean they don't make a move so you're forced to if you want anything to happen. So either he isn't feeling you or he's so shy, he won't even talk to you. And frankly both sound hopeless.

[jean999]

Personally, I know a lot of guys that do this, it doesn't necesarily mean he's isn't interested, sometimes guys want u to text first for reassurance that its an "ok" to talk or simply that they want to feel like u actually do want to talk

[Asker]

We've been folllowing each other for months though...

[jean999]

I've had a girl stalk me for a year and a half, she never texted me cuz she was afraid of what I would think about her, and so I started talkin more with her, we ended up dating

[Asker]

Haha and you never talked to her...

[jean999]

I did, thats how i found out she loved me

[Asker]

So you talked to her after 1,5 yr?

[sierzant]

Be patient and cool..