Do women intentionally date bad boys and then complain about it?

[Anonymous]

Girls before thirty purposefully date bad boys when they ditch them or after thirty they complain about abuse. Saw today on Instagram that Megan Fox is complaining about such. Even personally I have seen female friends complain about such relationships when they were themselves sleeping with 5/6 guys per month.

Somehow after thirty, they started to shame those men. You wanted those men and the lifestyle they provide, why shame them afterward?

[kylee2437]

I think both sides need to be held accountable to be honest, because those men love the thrill a chasing love because they don’t have a bone to love someone else in their body which is problematic and then women like the thrill of chasing a man that they know isn’t really capable of being kept. It’s a thrill for both ends that creates such problems

[lilithsgarden]

I think there is some sort of psychology behind this. Many younger women are insecure, because of the pressure they are put under through the whole course of their lives. So being chosen by the „bad boy“ might feel like acceptance & push your ego for a short moment. The older you get, the more you get to know your worth. Also you learn from this type of relationships. Oftentimes it‘s just attraction & you can‘t really choose to whom you initially feel attracted too. But I‘d like to add, this doesn‘t apply to every woman, it‘s a small percentage that participates in this sort of dating lifestyle.

[Asker]

I don't think it a small but the majority of women follow the same lifestyle the opposite is rare. Now the question is why the bad boys get blamed later in life as those girls definitely chose those men.
Secondly, why actually good men actually date those women who get ignored and treated poorly while the women were more young and attractive? So many women complain about men dating younger and feeling entitled to good men after thirty. (Not talking about pretentious men who only act nice).

[NavyOU37]

All the time! Women have so many chances and options to date good men who would never cheat on them, but decide if he isn't in the top 1% she will just look over him.

[jahaims]

Some do subconsciously