Why does it seem like if you didn't go to public school or party/clubbing /drinking you are rejected by women?

[Awesomesauce2005]

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Rejected and ignored

[mandyfire98]

That's not gonna normally be grounds for rejection but the places you listed are popular social settings where people meet and mingle. If you aren't normally in popular social settings than you're less likely to meet people growing up. So it's not rejection it's just not meeting people in the first place. If you don't socialize then you can't even be in a position to be rejected.

I don't think people are sitting around with a checklist asking people

• Have you gone to public school
• Have you been to a bar
• Have you been to a club

[Awesomesauce2005]

I socialize at car shows/rod runs, grocery stores and auto parts stores 😂 i should try to branch out. Im not really the stereotypical irresponsible teenager lol

[mandyfire98]

It's hard to meet women at auto parts stores. Especially at 18 years old. Same with grocery stores. You have to go where people are. You have to go to social settings. At 18 most people meet at college. Most of that is at parties or bars or clubs or sporting events. It is what it is.

[Awesomesauce2005]

I guess i will be single for the rest of my life lol.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Im not a college kind of person

[LazerBean]

Have not noticed that at all. I've only noticed people getting ignored and rejected when they have really bad social skills, regardless of how they were educated or where they hang out.

[jahaims]

Seems like you are just projecting because that is your experience. Home schooled kids in general will have lesser social skills which are required to talk to women.

[Billlewis]

It doesn't matter where I went to school, or where I spend my time, I couldn't get any pussy if I were in a cat sitting facility... lol.

[Jbear27]

None of that stuff matters. Work on your communication skills and confidence. If you’re funny then even better. Nothing gets woman’s attention more than a guy that can make them laugh and keep them smiling.

[LiamJHayden]

Confirmation bias.