Do women really reject more people, giving men fewer chances in dating?

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Just something I can see.  Which holds true when I try.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Lol. Men get fewer matches because the dating apps set it up to have men presented with more fake accounts than women, so that they will give in to paying premium in order to finally get a hit. Meanwhile women get matched more often with real men who are more likely to match back. Dating apps work no differently than sports betting.

If dudes would learn to stop having such an inferiority complex about women, sex, and dating they would not only feel better but do better. All these things men talk about and obsess over just give women power. Women know that guys are forever depressed about struggling to get a date or "not being able to have sex like women" and it makes them happy. Women take pleasure in knowing what bothers dudes, and they love knowing if guys are doing worse than them. They want you to feel like you are at their mercy for sex and dating, but dudes refuse to understand this. The more they complain about this stuff the happier and more powerful women feel.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

I'm not so sure.

I like taking street stats. and recently looked at height of the girl relative to the guy in obvious couples going by. There were a couple of girls who only reached to guys shoulder and a couple who were as tall as the guy.

It was pretty tight distributed that the top of the girls head was ear height relative to her guy. About 5 or 6" difference is the median I got and it seemed pretty constant between older couples and young couples.

If girls only formed relationships with 6' plus guys I should only see 6' plus walking down the street holding hands with a girl but I don't.

I've seen it said that girls filter for height on dating apps because they can and given the volume of potentials they have to filter on something rather than swipe through all the guys on Tinder etc. Then would only need for there to be a slight minor preference for 6'+ to get that effect.

Doesn't seem to end up that way though. Try doing your own street stats on Saturday morning.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

no i don't think women reject more than men. I think that men tend to be more desperate for sex than women, which is why they tend to approach way more. Often times, men only approach attractive women.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You base this theory on a mindless YouTube video?

dragoblack · Answer

From personal experience and my female friends showing me their profiles, there is a massive difference. Mens profile will have at most maybe 10 matches (most being solicitors or bots) over a period of 1 year. women's will have hundreds if not over 1000 unread matches & messages... many that never get sorted through. With most of the dating apps owned by 1 umbrella company, the algorithm is shite and screws over guys if they even dislike once, which is why women have so many liked by profiles. On the womens side, it is pick and choose, while picking out the ones that are visually attractive from their matches as main focus, but the rest is just sifting through toxic guys who just want a hookup, guys that get verbally abusive when told no, guys that want to sent shirtless photos & unsolicited dick pics, and just ghosting those she's unsure of... unless she's the type to go "he should just take the hint, I'm not interested" when she has said nothing and can't hold a conversation. Personally, if you are not interested, just unmatch, Better than wasting everyone's time.

RingOfFire · Answer

The video is interesting, but I think the answer is obvious. Women get FAR MORE guys chasing them on dating apps than guys get women chasing them.

That isn't a mystery.

Men are designed by nature to be the more aggressive initiators and pursuers in relationships with women. It has been like since humans first existed. So there is no surprise there at all. Normal women are not comfortable being the pursuers. They like to be the pursued. They like men to be the initiators. That's nature and evolution. It's no different than many other species of animals where the male is the pursuer. In most species that is the case. Simple natural instinct.

NathanDavis · Answer

I guess it depends on the person and also how you go about it...

for example, 100% of the girls I ever asked to go out or hang out, all of them said yes

but, I do have a very nifty trick for that 100% successful rate... I only ask them out "on a date" when I am sure they want to go out with me, lmfao... and also, I've only done that about four times in my life, no more than that, lol

Anonymous · Answer

Now in out of my 20s, I can certainly say at a brand new 32 👀 each gender does it fairly

I've rejected or given off vibes when I'm not interested in a woman or woman eyeballing me 🤭😄.

And I'm sure many women have diplomatically down so similarly - quick and curt 😅😂

Sunglassesx11 · Answer

On dating apps there are in general very few women participating then men. Majority of the users are men. So I wouldn't be surprised why men might come across as unsuccsessful.

genericname85 · Answer

on dating sites, that is statistically true. though to be fair on dating sites, the majority of men are just trying to get laid and girls are not trying to do that so that's probably a big reason for that statistic.

mstbooblover · Answer

In any case it's useful to keep in mind that if a man proposes, the woman is entitled to dispose ;0)

jshm2 · Answer

No. A lot of the time, it's a collection of things that put them off.

123459876 · Answer

Well I think women are hit on all the time by all kinds of freaking weirdos so it probably gets old so maybe that is true I know that I never really paid too much attention and had plenty of dates

msc545 · Answer

It is very rare for a woman to offer a man sex, and it is very common for a woman to turn down a man who offers her sex.

MrChinaski · Answer

It's just biology.

Anonymous · Answer

I believe so.

In_Trance · Answer

Accurate

Jeff51 · Answer

I think so.

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