The way women approach dating makes dating nearly impossible for men true or false?

[Intothevoid666]

How hard it is to simply get to know most women on a basic level is frustrating. Like I would like to ideally have an in depth conversation with lots of women before deciding to date one but getting an in depth conversation out of 99% of women is like pulling teeth. Like aren’t they interested too in getting to know me a bit to see if we’re compatible? It’s like I have to do all the heavy lifting while women just sit and do nothing. While they’re the one who is getting less attractive with age and the same cannot exactly be said of me. It’s the whole situation is completely tilted in their favor, they have no understanding of that and won’t even lift a finger to try to help out. How do u date women in this day and age when u can’t even get a convo out of 97% of them? Why am I the one rushing to make things happen and find a life partner and women are just waiting around when it’s not me who is judged so heavily on my youth? But then I’ll be the bad guy if I don’t want to date these same women when we’re 10 years older.

[bamesjond0069]

Error. you're a half awake simp. Realize 99% of women are shit. For example if i say hi to a woman and she goes "ugh dont talk to me" well a person who would do that when i didn't even hit on her just be polite is clearly a scumbag. I wouldn't want to date her for sure. Would she respond to my grandma the same way if she said hi to her? Or if she ghosts, seriously only people with mental issues ghost someone unless that person was rude or something. Even on gag girls post about why they ghost... they are unable to say they are not interested or to be friendly to a man... these are the same women who have sex because they couldnt say no... do you really want a girlfriend like that? Goes to a party and has sex because she's so deathly afraid of any confrontation at all? Total trash.

Stop thinking women are wonderful. Most are average or worse. Stop thinking a hot girl is what you want. Hot is not enough, you deserve better.

Get your attitude right.

[poneglyphs]

That's a good question because I have that same issue too and most women rarely talk to me and just ghost me

[Subarugirl]

Completely false considering most adult men are in a romantic relationship

[Intothevoid666]

Most guys I know are single. And I think the majority of young men are single by my observation so I don't know about that.

[Subarugirl]

Google it.. there was a great article published by pew research on it actually

[Squaresquirrel]

How are you doing this dating thing yourself? I am curious.

[Intothevoid666]

Approaching women at school, a club, a bar, online dating etc. trying to meet women through friends although the amount of women that come to me that way is very small.

[Squaresquirrel]

Are you approaching them with the intention of dating? Or just an intention of chatting?
I mean, I know quite a few girls including me, who don't like to be forced to make a decision on the spot. And I mean, slow burn would work better, with me at least. Shared activities where there's no dating pressure. But you have to put some real effort in there.
Everyone should forget about online dating, 95% of the people just set themselves up for failure.
Clubs and bars, especially nowadays, either for hookup only or the guy seem suspicious. Most of my friends would never meet any strangers in a club, unless it's a friend's friend, otherwise it can get dangerous.
School could be good but then if it doesn't work out, you migt have some awkward moments, plus most likely everyone will know.

"While they’re the one who is getting less attractive with age and the same cannot exactly be said of me." This sentence could be the root of your problem. Your attitude is showing.
And let me break it to you, men older than 35 are not hot commodity either, unless they are megarich. Nobody wants a balding man with flaccid dick.

[Intothevoid666]

I’m approaching them with the intention of chatting and trying to see if they are someone I’d date and I mean I’m not opposed to se either. I’m trying to figure out what I want from them. Ok and yes every woman wants the slow burn but the thing is I don’t have time for that. I’ve been waiting around for things to just naturally happen for like 10 years and it hasn’t happened. And I can’t just keep waiting for things to magically happen. It’s like I’m supposed to ONLY date women who have a shared social activity with me that we have both engaged in like 10+ times or else they don’t want it. Well let’s do some math here. There maybe a few hundred women in my social circle who I can slow burn it with as u say. Well there are like 50,000 women my age within a 20 min drive of me. I have an odd personality. I’m a weird person and most of the girls I’ve dated have been weird and eccentric. I don’t tend to find what I’m looking for in my social circle so what do I do? And 40 yr old women wanna date who? 40 yr old men right. 40 yr old men wanna date who? Yeah not 40 yr old women. See the difference.

[Squaresquirrel]

If you don't have time for that...
Maybe just give up forcing this whole dating thing.
Why do you want to date a woman anyway? To get laid?
You said talking to a lot of women is like pulling teeth, do you think they can't feel your attitude?
Yes, you can't keep waiting, but you shouldn't do whatever doesn't work. You have to change.
Let's put it this way. You are the buyer. You either pay the price the seller set, or walk away.
There's no workaround this.

Oh and about the 40 year old men. It doesn't matter who they want to date. Most 20-25 year olds will not want to date them. For your own sake, stop watching youtube videos that tell you otherwise. A 40 year old man is not attractive for most young women. (unless he is rich and she is a gold-digger)
Men do not have all the time in the world either.

Bottom line is, either you change your approach and attitude, or go mgtow.

[Intothevoid666]

Lol and is exactly what I’m talking about. Ur attitude that I’m the buyer and ur the seller is toxic and if anything ur the buyer of a relationship and I’m the seller. U and many women I may add have such an entitled attitude about dating and u wanna act like I’m the one with the problem. U have no problem making men do all the work and u have no problem holding whatever unrealistic expectation u want and if men don’t want to date u after a certain point and would prefer to go after younger women men are then the problem. Well if u were a good seller u wouldn’t be complaining that the buyers are looking towards a new market instead of yours. You’d already have a consistent buyer set in place before that became an issue.

[Intothevoid666]

I have more to “sell” so to speak than most of the girls I approach by the way.

[Intothevoid666]

So because I’m not willing to spend 100 times as much time and effort only looking for women in my social circle and never cold approaching I’m just shit out of luck but women shouldn’t have to do a thing?

[Squaresquirrel]

What a shame, you can't even read between the lines.
The more you reply, the more obvious what your actual problem is.

[Intothevoid666]

Yes I know u magically know my personality is shit despite never meeting me and that’s clearly why I find dating women frustrating and this isn’t something that most guys I know also experience

[Waldoe]

mmm "Dating"? just meet and get to know people... don't have the Mind-set of a "hunter"

[grega239]

Which is why you should stop bothering with women and go do something productive