The way women approach dating seems illogical to me?

[Intothevoid666]

The way I see it it makes the most sense to find a girl I find attractive talk with them a bit in person when I first meet them. Get their contact info have a quick text chat and go on a date to see if we are compatible or not. But that’s like not an acceptable approach to women or something. Because when I make guy friends it tend to work like that I can meet a guy talk with then and then ask them to hang out and that’s all there is to it but with girls this approach like isn’t acceptable or something. Why is it that I’m supposed talk with them briefly in person multiple times before even having a full length convo with them? Is r that just a massive waste of time for no reason? Someone explain how this makes any sense?

[big_ben_007]

Some guys look attractive in their outward appearance and how they talk. A girl can fall in love with just that and sleep with the guy without getting to know him. if a girl isn't turned on by u she's probably 50% not interested in u. And then getting to talk to her will be hard, getting to date her will be harder unless u turn her on or show her why you're worth her time. Do u think you've turned her off in any way?

[Intothevoid666]

I think unless I have perfect social skills I can’t get women to go for me which is difficult as an introvert and the threshold for having perfect social skills is higher the more attractive u r

[big_ben_007]

I think there's 2 kinds of women. Women who are impatient and jump to conclusions and assume that you're a certain type of guy, or a patient girl who's interested in u and will get to know u before judging you. But again, can u say anything to get a girl's attention or make her turned on?

[Intothevoid666]

I mean I think so I’m not like bad at flirting but flirting with guys u just met is usually unhelpful ime. I’ve only met the one type really so I don't know about that but maybe I just always meet the wrong girls somehow

[big_ben_007]

Well man keep your head up and try to go out to a different place once a week to socialize. There's lots of girls out there

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Girls see it as you trying to have sex with them. And don't listen to the liars saying they would do the same thing to a girl

[Intothevoid666]

Yeah I’ve noticed that but like so what I’m supposed to just invest a bunch of time and effort just to get a date? Cuz the alternative to the method I stated in my op is way too much work to realistically be worth it. Dating can’t be a full time job. And what do u mean by that last part

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Just go on dating apps or meet someone new at a nightclub. Problem solved. The gym really isn't a place for hookups unless you're in the top 10% of attractiveness. I face through the same struggles

[Intothevoid666]

The girls at the nightclub and dating apps do the same thing ime

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Ok then maybe practice better hygiene and wear something nice for the occasion troll. I don't have time to argue. BLOCKED

[slatyb]

You aren't supposed to do anything. If a woman isn't ready to have a face to face with you after some conversation, she's not interested.

[Intothevoid666]

But she is. Literally like every woman I talk to plays hard to get with me

[Intothevoid666]

And even if that is the case what do u do when you’ve done like everything u can to make urself as attractive as possible and women still do this?

[slatyb]

How many female froe. da so you have? Women you get by name when you see them?

[slatyb]

Friends

[Intothevoid666]

Quite a few