Recently single, what are some red flags a guy just wants sex?

[Anonymous]

I hate dating but I hate being alone more. It's like no matter what dating app you choose 90 percent of men just want to get laid. They're either upfront about it or try and lie or omit that fact.

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I'm 35 years old. Lol I love sex, and have a very high libido. I just don't just want sex or be used for sex. Which, we all know some men lie and tell a woman what ever she wants to hear just to get laid. I have this happen in the past it's really humiliating when your really into someone, and turns out he's just using you as a cum dumpster.

[PrincessBunBuns]

Here’s my tip for fuck-boys. I’ve met a ton.


First, be up front. If you’re looking for sex, even if you’re not, ask straight up. “Do you want to have sex or are you looking for long-term?” Then just pretend you’re down for sex, and if they instantly agree, they’re just looking for sex. 💀 Proceed as you wish.


Conversations are one-sided. Like they straight up ignore more than half of what you’re saying, and they’re just talking about some random shit. But if they’re talking to you for longer than two weeks, they’re likely not looking for sex. Consistency is key.


Ask how many bodies they have. TRUST MEEE. I’m not saying if they have a lot of bodies they’re bad, but a humble not fuck-boy will be like “Lol, what?” And not share with you, or will need to be pried. Someone who fucks around will tell you if it’s more than 10 just to boast. If it’s one, they’ll still tell you. In which case, they’ve probably had a long-term relationship.


If you only message on Snapchat… I’m sorry but that’s a dub. That man has hoes. Ask him to send you a pic of his friend list. I bet you it’s mostly women.


Trust your gut girly.


OH ALSO if you DO want to have sex, now or eventually, ask them the last time they were tested. If they say they tested negative and haven’t slept with anyone, awesome. If they say they got tested a year ago but slept with two people that were “clean”… he’s most likely not. Caring about your sexual health is sexy.

[TonyMetal___86]

I am sure that there are guys who wants more than sex, you just need to find such guys cause some of them can be straight about it...
Don't give him sex or tell him sex for me comes after marriage, if he stays with you after hearing this, it means he wants something serious...

All men wants sex, me included but some want only sex and some wants love plus sex and a real marriage...

All women wants sex too, but a lot of them wants sex with love...

It's not like men wants sex while women makes themselves that they don't care about it, common let's be real ladies, i know that the strongest man in the world wouldn't a chance with you sexually when you're into it 😂😂

[slatyb]

You can't trade sex for love or commitment. If you keep that in mind you won't feel cheated.. Have sex because you want to have sex. Then you will get what you want.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well props to you for not falling for all the bullshit, well anon my advice would be to stay out of the dating apps if you seek something serious and long-lasting, all the scum of the earth lingers on them apps.

[UniquelyBasic]

Just make them wait a few weeks. Usually the fboys will just get tired of waiting around and leave.

[Tim2nice]

I have news for you. Sexual desire is part of human relationships. If you want a man who doesn’t want sex then find a catholic priest or an old impotent man. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

What’s wrong with wanting sex? Is it because they only want it that one time and then never hear from them again? Or do you just not like sex?

[Asker]

Of course I want sex. I just don't just want sex and be used for sex while I could be faithful to someone worthy

[Opinion Owner]

Ok that’s better because some women act like sex is a terrible thing for guys to want, I definitely want sex with someone I’m with but I’m not going to just want that and then leave, I’m always going to be coming back and want to be with them. The only way you can tell if that’s all they want you for is if they are trying to get that on the first or second date, if they take the time to know you then they want something more than that

[Anonymous]

Its all a guy will talk about, lol.