Do you like getting approached by women?

[Anonymous]

Yes

Only if she's attractive

No

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[Anonymous]

As long as it’s genuine hell yeah. If she’s attractive great. But if she’s not I will be respectful because I know it took her courage to approach. That is of course she wasn’t aggressive or inappropriate.

But one unfortunate thing I’ve noticed is sometimes women approach men for gross ulterior motives (i. e. to make the guy they really like jealous) and it’s completely unacceptable.

I remember a very attractive girl in college asked me to “spot her” while she was doing squats in the gym when in reality she wanted to piss off the guy she really liked and that wasn’t me. I wish I had the courage to say back then “go ask Kyle for a spot.” And walked away. It was in the back of mind that’s she was up to but I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt Should of listened to my gut.

Anyway mostly younger woman do this but there women over 30 who still do this.

If a man does this it would be considered cruel and immature. Women need to be held to no lesser standard on that.

[Asker]

Agreed.

[Opinion Owner]

Forgot to mention she married the guy she was trying make jealous back then.

The problem is that nobody teaches young men to watch out for when it comes to female bullshit. It’s not “harmless” to make a young man feel used.

Women are generally taught young what to avoid (but don’t often follow advice). But young men aren’t.

[godfatherfan]

Younger guys are lucky. Younger women are much more likely to go after the guy. I dated a woman that actually said "if I have to ask a guy out, I would just be single the rest of my life". How sad is that. I am tired of having to chase women. Esp on dating apps where so many are just on there for a free drink or meal. I want the woman to come after me. Or at the very least, initiate the conversation. Then I am happy to take it from there. That is why I am only on Bumble now.

[Asker]

Really? I've found it just the opposite. I never got approached by women in my younger years compared to now. Yeah, any woman that held that attitude I wouldn't want to date. I don't have a problem approaching women so long as they make the effort to let me know they're interested. Most women don't di that very well. I don't play games. She's going to have to risk something if she wants my attention.
Have you tried concerts and music festivals? That seems to be where I get most of the women approaching me.

[godfatherfan]

You are closer to my age then 20's. When I say "younger", I am talking about todays younger people.

[HaleyCatgirl]

I actually do I'm trying to make more female friends but now it's like everyone is so high guarded about their boyfriends I'm just sitting there like what 👁️👄👁️ I want to be your friend not his lol

[HaleyCatgirl]

I only found this site yesterday to ask for some sexual advice I'm probably going to stop using it eventually lol

[Nikki1989]

Yes because it is so rare when it happens. Men approach all the damn time.

[Asad1ONE1]

Oh no they do not. It's rare now actually.

[strateguy632]

well i kinda prefer feminine type women but i guess i should make an exception if she is attracted to me. who am i kidding? i am delighted each time this happened to me.

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣

[MicroViewer]

If she is attractive, then praise be to the divine coom, for it shall floweth freely into the coom jar. But if she is unattractive, oh dear Lord, spare me from the horror of her unappetizing form. In these situations, I turn to prayer, begging for the strength to resist the temptation to splash her with my holy load. As @ButthurtTroll would say, "Butt coom is the bomb, yo!"

[JacobJordan]

sure I am quite flattered being approached by anyone. as I am married I will have to decline but I will not be disrespectful about it

[Unit1]

Yes, totally, it's lovely. That's how girls stand out from the rest. AKA what other girls call them a "pick me", which means a overall more desirable girl.

[m33ladEmjay]

yes.. But you know when girls approach guys. It's always because she's minus -10000 and the guy is like a 25-year-old Brad Pitt... And girls have ZERO GAMES! always the worst approach ever.

[Bloodfeast]

Not true at all I've had beautiful women approach me many times.

Either they have been super direct "you're cute can I have your number?"

Or they would start asking me questions like "are you single?" "Do you have kids?"

OR they would catch my eye at the bar and wiggle her hips. or shake her butt at me. Or be closer to me, catch my eye, and while looking at me lean over to her friend next to her and say something sexual and nasty like "I need some DICK.",

But I suspect that there is a culture that I am not aware of.

In this culture is attractive men and women, and they basically fuck on sight.

They just know what's up. But the girls are expecting me to be a part of the culture but I never was. I was always alone all my life.

[m33ladEmjay]

@Bloodfeast guys who talk like you. are virgins or they never get anything. You go to a 3rd world country walk around h00ker streets and come back with this B. S story. Or the girls are minus -10000 and you have a standard of a roach.

[Bloodfeast]

That is a very big cope.

[m33ladEmjay]

@Bloodfeast Masculine men tell the truth feminine unliked unattractive guys lie. Like you did!

[Bloodfeast]

Well it isn't a lie that's for sure lol. That's just my life.

If it helps, I was never cool. I was like the ugly girl in movies who gets a makeover and suddenly the hot guys want her.

But in reverse.

I was a loser my whole life but as an adult, they only saw my looks. So I got approached a lot.

But I didn't know what to do with it when I was younger so most of the time nothing happened.

I would even reject the girls because I was afraid that they would see the real me. The real me who was a shy loner who never had a girlfriend before.

I was terrified for them to realize I was not who they were hoping for.

But now after all these years I get it. And now it's easy to see a woman's choosing signals and all that stuff.

Most guys don't get to experience that and I know that I'm very lucky.

At the same time there is some degree of truth to what you said. Many of those girls were whores.

But even if a woman is a whore, she only whores out for specific men. A woman who is a whore never fucks a guy who is shy or a nerd.

She only fucks attractive guys or guys with money or a nice car or popularity or power.

It is what it is!

[m33ladEmjay]

@Bloodfeast You're so busy talking so much horse SH## nothing can ever go in. Dude im a guy I dont know what you look like. And I already dont like you. I have never even met you. GIRLS DEFINITELY DONT LIKE YOU! You have a massive unlikable personality. Regardless what you look like. Im dont talking.. Because I think there is no sense. and way you're too St000pid.

[Bloodfeast]

You lack reading comprehension. There is no use typing to you. Good bye.

[m33ladEmjay]

@Bloodfeast Im not listening to you lack of life experience horse sh##

[straightmax12]

It shouldn't be just guys that goes after the girl. The girl can chase after the guy too.

[Asker]

Well that would be the very definition of EQUALITY.

[Benjiman19]

Never been approached by a woman unless she's my waitress at a restaurant... But I'd like it if I was approached.

[SotiCoto]

Used to. Not any more. I'm too old for that nonsense. I'd rather everyone just left me the hell alone in meatspace.

[Pohjolan]

I don't dislike it generally speaking but its a bit weird if they just sit there without saying anything.

Also approaching is not the same as hitting on someone.

[Starrrboy]

Yeah obviously.. after a while tho it feels kinda weird cuz you feel like a chick lol..

[AnusNdaPainus]

I hate talking to people.

But god hates me so people don’t leave me alone

[AnusNdaPainus]

Nvm I take that back
You see I wasn’t allowed to have self esteem as a child so I’m actually much better looking than I see myself
But blame my family for that because real body dysmorphia is learned no healthy 6ft 16 year old boy should be under 90 lbs

[Juxtapose]

Fuck yeah I do and women who don't understand that don't understand men.. at all.

[Avicenna]

Sure, it's fun

[Naruse]

Even if I'm not interested yeah it's a confidence boost.

[Jmmmfi4]

HEEEEEEEELL YES... NOT THAT IT EVER HAPPENS

[bolverk]

Would not know as its never happened.

[Asker]

Sorry man.

[bolverk]

Nothing to be sorry about, I personally feel that I've missed nothing

[Asker]

That's probably the best way to look at it. 👍

[whistlingwh0res]

Same as a dog on the street. They love getting pet

[madhatters4]

sure it's flattering

[captain_voidwalker]

Wouldn't know, it's never happened to me.

[Asker]

Sorry man.

[colaman94]

I also voted only if she's attractive 😁

[NathanDavis]

never had a bad experience at that

[Slim57]

I don't get approached by women

[Asker]

Sorry man.

[Slim57]

Its alright I still have and get girlfriends somehow

[jamesgoldman]

Yeah, I can turn them into customers

[LiamJHayden]

I am fine with it.

[Anonymous]

Life is short, so be direct

[strateguy632]

superb opinion i say.

[Opinion Owner]

🫡🫡

[red324]

From what I hear girls don't approach

[JohnK123]

Ya but wish it was more often

[Anonymous]

I have had attractive women approach me. It's fun.

[TheUniqueOne96]

I wouldn't mind it.

[Anonymous]

Sure, I;m always down for that.

[Anonymous]

Obviously yes!

[PreciousJewel]

I love itttt

[Enginn]

I sure do