Is it a sign of weakness if a guy shows his feelings?

[ManhattanMan1212]

Ladies is it a sign of weakness if a man shows his feelings to you in a relationship?

[MemeSupreme]

yes screw emotional intelligence and maturity

show no fear. show no emotion. show your dominance within the animal kingdom

by the way on a serious note, any time my exes opened up it made the relationship stronger. like its something i appreciate a lot bc it shows he trusts me and i want to be there for him. its okay to want to be heard by your partner

[ManhattanMan1212]

Was the first part of your answer sarcastic?

[MemeSupreme]

yeah

[ManhattanMan1212]

Ok good

[ManhattanMan1212]

What do you look for in a man?

[MemeSupreme]

trust, humor, and that we're in a similar place in like life

[ManhattanMan1212]

Does he have to make a lot of money?

[MemeSupreme]

no idc about that. thats not like me trying to be sound nice but like i seriously don't care about that

[ManhattanMan1212]

Good for you

[ManhattanMan1212]

Would you dump a great guy just because he has an average size dick?

[Daffotul]

exactly

[Daffotul]

I was replying to her comment not your last one sorry

[abbyjgriffin98]

The ability to express your feelings in a healthy fashion is not a sign of weakness. But if you are emotionally unstable, that is not strength.

This goes for both genders, by the way.

[ManhattanMan1212]

If we were dating you saw me crying because I had a really bad day would you laugh at me and think I was a weak man because men should not cry? by the way I don’t cry I’m just using it as example

[abbyjgriffin98]

No, I wouldn't think you were weak for having a bad day. I'd ask what happened and if there was any way I could help.

[jademaeve13]

Firstly; it is NEVER a sign of weakness to express any feelings!!!

if we’ve been speaking for a while, and have both shown interest, then please tell us. We want to know your interested.
I would only say, don’t come off too strong too fast, sometimes that can be intimidating and overwhelming.

[ManhattanMan1212]

I was mostly talking about sadness. Would you see your boyfriend or husband as a weak man if he was crying or depressed because he had a tea bad day?

[jademaeve13]

No i would never, society and the patriarchy often states that it’s weak to show emotion, hence why women are ‘allowed to’ and men aren’t. But this idea is so toxic and really damaging to mental health, it’s a big reasons why the male suicide rate is a lot higher then women’s. Everyone, man or woman, need to express emotion, we all have thoughts and feelings, gender shouldn’t determine whether or not you express them. So no, i would not say it’s weakness at all, if anything, it shows incredible strength

[ManhattanMan1212]

I 100% agree about the male suicide part

[Daffotul]

exactly

[Anonymous]

No Not at all! My boyfriend shows his feelings all the time and I think it's a sign of strength tbh

[ManhattanMan1212]

Would you dump your boyfriend if he had a average size penis?

[Opinion Owner]

None of your business

[Daffotul]

no it's actually refreshing

[ManhattanMan1212]

Then why do a lot of women say it’s very weak for men to show their true feelings

[Daffotul]

maybe because they don't understand psychology but I do because I am a psychology major and an empath so I can relate better than most women and I don't play games

[ManhattanMan1212]

Where are you from?

[Daffotul]

New Jersey

[Daffotul]

why?

[ManhattanMan1212]

I feel like women from other countries other than America are more nicer to men so I just wanted to ask to see where you were from

[Daffotul]

oh ok it depends on how you were brought up too