How should I send the first message to the guy I like?

[Anonymous]

I like a guy, I met him by chance.
But he doesn't even know me.
My only option to meet him is Instagram, but how can I send him a message?
ps: i know he doesn't have a girlfriend. Also , he's a bohemian and shy person, not a womanizer

[bededazzle]

there’s nothing wrong with reaching out, especially if there’s not really a chance of running into him. if he’s interested in you, he will probably love that the lady made the first move. if he’s not, he will probably be flattered and you can move on without regrets since you tried.

[Asker]

thanks for the comment:)) So why do you think I felt such feelings for someone I don't know?
What exactly can I send a message to?

[bededazzle]

oh shoot well i don’t actually know the mechanics of instagram, if you can send a message? why do you feel that way? well, you are probably idealizing a bit since you don’t know him, but SOMETHING about him attracts you and your mind fills in the blanks :). happens to us all. if you get to know him, it’s possible you won’t like him, so keeping that in mind could help to relax.

[Asker]

Writing on Instagram is the only option :)
I will write but I don't want to be disgraced..
The things he wrote on his blog page are the same as my feelings, it's like there's something I've been looking for for years, I don't know what it is. And whatever I'm looking for is hidden there

[bededazzle]

i can understand that. someone’s writing is a bit of a doorway into the soul. still, i don’t think it’s enough to truly show compatibility, but who is to say? many times, i have emailed a woman i didn’t know too well. for me, it hasn’t ever worked out, but at least i don’t have to wonder what if. you might have to ask someone younger about the social media aspect of it, but i ask you to not get your hopes up too much because i do think your emotional response, while understandable, is not in proportion ti what you actually know about this person

[Asker]

I'm not getting my hopes up, this is just an intuitive thing. I believe in spiritual matters, maybe I should be in contact with him. Thank you again for your interest :)

[bededazzle]

very well then, i support your intuition! best luck i hope it works out

[Asker]

thank youu :))