You can take this in multiple ways:
1. You got friend-zoned.
2. You were the side piece. (Y'know when they tell their S/O that you're just a friend and they don't have to worry about anything.)
3. Other..
Never had 1 happen before lol 2 is a different story but I'm not proud and I'll never do that again. Hbu?
All thy time. Worst was one of my Ex's she got with me right after she broke up with a jerk, then went back to him after a while. But she still liked me, and still was doing things with me. It was a weird tringle.
She liked me because I am not a jerk but she liked him more sexually I think so, guess who didn't win lol.
She's a prime example why that stereotype of girls choose the bad guy exists.
And for even more context that jerk was also my best-friend in my 2nd high school. When I moved high school we right away hit it off, it's odd he's very like me but not he just cares even less about stuff, so when his girlfriend needed to go to hospital I was the one who took her not him. I was the one who stayed with her the whole night while in hospital. He just said "I can't be arsed." etc.
So yeah she then left him for me, then went back to him smh.
Then my cousins not actual cousins but class them as so who stayed friends with both us, who've started back been in contact with just we lost contact after highschool and that.
They told me oh yeah she's fat now and there place is filled with trash cause both of them are very lazy tbf I am too but apparently it's way worse than my room has ever been.
Which my room is always messy and I've had my room in really just trash pits before so if it's even worse yeah that's very bad lol. And that's their whole place not just their room.
So in the end I dodge one major bullet I guess.
Some people just like the bad choices I don't know. I mean she wasn't the most bright she watched this youtube channel of these "Real life" stories, and within about 3 of them I figured out they were clearly fake and made up but she insisted they were real.
It's years ago now so can't exactly remember the things that gave it away but yeah I was 100% certain they were fake.
But she was attractive, plus laidback and was okay with just cuddling all day. She also had a impulsive side to her which was a double edged sword lol.
Maybe most but I've met ones that won't so yeah. And I would say I always like it more than them lol.
I am someone who wakes up if they leave the bed for going to the toilet, and likes just been lazy some people like doing activities. Granted I can't say I would cuddle literally all the time because well I have to game and do like that alone time but eh that's the only thing, I am not someone who wants to go out and do things. Also gigs are exception but there like once every couple months or a couple in a few months, not a weekly thing or something.
I met and talked to a few girls in high school. I even flirted with some of them, but I didn't experience much with them because I'm not a big fan of temporary relationships. I never opened up myself until I reached a certain level in the relationship.
So, how about you? Have you become the third person in a relationship? Was it knowingly or unknowingly?
Yeah but did you continue the relationship after you found the truth?
I won't tell you how you came up with such a thing, because you were probably younger and couldn't think as healthily and consciously as you do today.
This is a very bad and wrong thing to do. However, you say that you are not proud of what you did and that you regret it, which is a valuable lesson for you. We all make mistakes from time to time, intentional or unintentional. However, unfortunately, not everyone is aware of the mistakes they made, or even if they are aware, they do not regret it. The lesson you learn at this point will prevent you from making bigger mistakes in the future.
When I was in 9th grade I had a crush on a "popular" 12th grader. Everyone kept asking him if he liked me because we talked n sort of flirted a lot. He said, "no she's like a little sister, she's too young. " hurt my feelings lol but he was a good friend
You found out he had a girlfriend after you already caught feelings I bet. How did you find out?
Yeah, I got friend zoned lots and also friend zoned guys I liked so I wouldn't lose them as friends.. but in time I lost them all anyways since I always keep relationships as shallow as possible..
Never would be someones side piece because either you are all mine or you are not..
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m one time, sort of... lmao
I was like 14 years old and in middle-school... and I ended up having a crush with this girl I was friends with, so yeah.. while I was crushing big time on her like a dumbass I didn't really have that confidence to think that I could end up with her, so I never told her till way later
so yes, I was very much in the friend-zone, no doubt... lol
but after and since then... none of that, I am either just friends with girls or they are my girlfriends, nothing in between
never been a side-piece either...
I have been friendzoned in the past before and it's not a very pleasant to be in unfortunately.
For a pretty long time I told myself that staying in the friendship with her might eventually give me a chance to break out of the friendzone at some point but that's isn't going to happen ofcourse.
Therefore I decided to stop being invested in this friendship once I learned it's not helping me feel better at any point. It's more likely to be painfull to me so moving on is the best option in that situation
Most women I know don't even consider me to be a friend. I think it makes it easier for them to discard me on a whim. There is one woman at work who gave me reason to think she might want me to be a friend or something more. But just one little thing happened. And I didn't know how to process things. She was upset at me. Anyways after that things between us were never the same. Sometimes she acts friendly and other times ignores me. I decided to ask her "Are we friends?" She responded, "I guess, why?"
Oh yeah definitely lol. Unrequited love is the story of my life.
mostly it’s because yes at first i did see them as just a friend but as i got to know them I started wanting more. But by that time some other guy made their move or they just weren’t interested in more.
Its alright lol. Now when i feel something i speak up i don’t hesitate
Of course I've been physically attracted to many women but i need a connection first before i make my move. Its just a bit tricky determining if they are still interested in me or not. Usually i can tell when someone is super into me but often times it can fade. Eventually i feel like ill get it right.
Sometimes i can feel a connection instantly though but thats rare for me
In my early 20s I fell for a girl I was friends with. I'd have chewed off my own arm to be her boyfriend but I didn't think she felt like that towards me.
Then she met a guy and flat told me the reason she got together with him was because he reminded her of me.
🤦😭
I've gotten friendzoned before but I only stuck around for a bit before I cut off the friendship, if I wanted a friend id invite the crackhead around the corner to the sports bar 😂
Yep whatever that reason may be ha
No, I always tell what I want from a woman.
I don't play games like trying to be friends to get into a woman's pants and stuff. I tell her straight. If I am friends with a woman and I get feelings I always spoke up.
So, these situations don't happen to me. In fact guys 🤣 used to be jealous that I told a decent girl straight that I like her instead of beating around the bush. Sadly, I think the culture where I live is not fit to accept a man telling what he wants.
no but only because they knew i wanted more lol. good on you for learning
No, never, but I don't believe in friend zones either.
I've gotten friend zoned and it sucked for a bit but I was able to get over it and be ok with being friends.
Yeah it's not worth being upset for too long. Life goes on and why make it weird lol
I got friendzoned once, but then I've friendzoned some girls, anndd hmmm side piece is up for debate
I can't be a friend with someone whom i don't want to be friends with...
Even if someone considered me to be their friend, i can't act like one if i couldn't consider them as friends...
Since i never made a 1st move towards a girl than i have never been in this situation, told you this in my previous answer to your question about who makes the 1st move...
STILL if one day i made a 1st move and she tells me that she have a SO, than i'll wish her luck and leave, won't be friends for sure, it's not like "hey if i can't be her boyfriend, than i'll settle to be her friend" no thanks 😄
I respect the relationship between a man and a woman, i try to help them to make it work, i'm not a snake who waits for the prey to fall than i attack 😏
When a girl is taken, i respect that!
Why would i want a girl who is taken? There are a lot of girls who are single, i treat the way i want to be treated!
Those guys are idiots trying to be friends with you hoping that they can steal you from your boyfriend or are put on a stand by mode in case you split up, one of them might win you, that's shallow and i'm not a teenager anymore to play such games 😄
Friend zoned? Absolutely. I don't think number 2 is really a friend if you're getting with the dude.
You didn't know what at first? That you were a friend?
And you didn't want to be his friend?
I got friend zoned but I still kept it real with them and was there friend, I feel if you weee to ever switch up because you got put in the friend zone then maybe you weren’t really a friend 🤔
#1, a few times.
#2, a few times.
#2 was more fun in the moment but caused more problems in the long run.
I've grown hesitant, wouldn't ask a woman for her number or even a date before meeting her a second time.
I've been 1 and 2. I've been friend zoned by a girl who I had a crush on. Only saw me as a friend. 2. I was a girls side piece even though she had a fiance. Her sister is actually the one who told me that she was engaged. I felt so used.
Both. 1 for 5 minutes, 2 for a week or two before I found out.
Oh, Jackie. Why oh why did you turn me down for that dance? I could have handled it better. Oh well.
Friendzoned on two different occasions. Basically anyone I've known and met in person if I've asked them out it's been an instant friend zone.
Did you at least know he had an s. o?
No, I've not had either
yeah it sucks
Yes several times. Usually as a side piece.
Yeah it happened a few times
the first one. sucks to be that.
Yeah lol
lol...
No never
yeah
Friend zone
I have
Nope.
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