Why is communication important in relationships?

[alonso]

This girl I've been dating for a while told me that she believes the most important thing in a relationship is communication, do you agree?

[passenger]

Communication in relationships is like the oil in an engine; it keeps everything running smoothly.

First off, communication is the bedrock of understanding. When you and your partner (or friend, or family member) are open and honest in your communication, it's like you're giving each other a roadmap to your hearts and minds. This will help you understand each other's expectations on relationship.

Then there's the whole aspect of conflict resolution. Let's be real, every relationship has its ups and downs, right? Effective communication is key in navigating through these rough patches. It’s about expressing your feelings without blaming or attacking the other person, which can be a fine line to walk. It's like being a diplomat in your own home!

Also, don't forget about emotional intimacy. It’s about creating a safe space where both of you feel heard and valued. When communication flows freely, it can really deepen the connection.

And hey, it’s not all about talking. Listening is a huge part of communication too. Active listening, where you’re really engaged and not just waiting for your turn to speak, shows that you respect and value what the other person is saying. It’s about giving them your full attention, which, let’s face it, is a pretty rare commodity these days with all our gadgets and gizmos.

[Screenwriter]

I think talk is cheap. Actions indicate much more loudly than words what kind of person you are. You can say you love someone and do nothing to show it.

And sure, you need to tell a partner you're going to work, you'd like to plan a vacation, pick up the mail, the kids from school. That kind of communication is a necessity.

But showing and doing are more important than mere words.

[BadApple69]

Communication it the most important thing in anything. Where you live you need to communicate with your neighbors. Where you work you need to communicate your thoughts and ideas.
And in a relationship communication is key to expressing your love and desires to your partner. No communication equals no relationship.

[madhatters4]

yes i agree. communication is vital to the success of relationships because it the ability to communicate effectively will play out in every aspect of a relationship. whether it's about sex, values, goals, etc, etc all of this is best dealt with through communication.

[IslaTheWitch]

If you want to be with her, you have to know her. There is no better way than asking questions and talking with her about different things to learn what she feels and thinks.

Other things are setting boundaries in the relationship, creating plans, solving conflicts, and many others where communication is a key.

You will fail if you only assume without confirming or disproving your assumptions.

[sage2021]

Why don't you two put some white medical tape over your mouths and not communicate for 24 hours. Then you might find out it is very important..

The only problem I have anymore is if someone is lying to me - which is part of communication for some people. You never know when they are telling you the truth or leading you in.

[exitseven]

Yes, it is the most important thing. People in relationships have to be in agreement on several things. Compromises must be made in some cases. It is hard to get two separate lives and try to put them together. Without communication it is impossible.

[andreasderjuengere]

The most important detail in life for girls/ladies/females indeed is ''communication''.

To keep them amused, ''we'' better agree to that.

Which does not mean that we can't have a beer while we pretend to listen.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Everyone would agree with that. A majority of relationship problems can be settled with proper communication. Without it and you're left with misconceptions, assumptions, ghosting, lies, secrets, etc

[katiesmuff]

I 100% agree with this! If you don't feel free and comfortable in total communicating with your partner then you are not ready for any relationship yet.

[jshm2]

It isn't.

It's one of many important things in relationships.

Relationships are about two or more things working together. To work together, communication is something necessary.

[Juxtapose]

What do you expect to do after you bust your nuts and aren't going to be horny for a while? Play jump rope with her? You're going to talk.. A LOT.

Communication is vital in any relationship really.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Because if you don't know how to talk to each other, why would you two even be together?

[Alwayreckles93]

Exactly this guy is lost.

[Peter_Penetrator]

To set boundaries. If couples intend on staying together for any length of time, you must have boundaries and compromises.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you can't communicate effectively, you can't relate. If you can't relate, you can't get along.
You'll end up fighting/arguing a lot, and you'll break up.

[Alwayreckles93]

What did you expect? Live her in a corner and neglect her? God I can't stand a mommas boy!

[SotiCoto]

A relationship is 100% built OF communication. No communication, no relationship... so yeah I'd say it is pretty important.

[Grond21]

It's the most important because without it, every relationship fails.

[Joshydavid25]

It's important because it helps you to understand each other..

[KonkeyDong]

What I think is supremely important in a Relationship is understanding Expectations, which Communication plays a big part in.

[Anonymous]

communication is crucial for a relationship to go well.

[Slim57]

Because if you're not willing to talk about what's bothering you to your partner or what you like or how to fix and move on from things then you're not growing much

[legalboxers]

-blinks- how would you expect to express your feelings?

[whistlingwh0res]

I don't know.. attraction is the most important and then communication I think