Communication in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I don't tell my boyfriend something or don't wanna talk about something he asks me if I still want the relationship or if I want us and then starts an argument saying my communication skills are really bad, an example would be I didn't want to tell him why I didn't go for an audition call back , I said I don't wanna talk about it and just changed the subject and he asked me do I even want a relationship since I don't wanna tell him , am I wrong for not wanting to share how I feel sometimes or is he overreacting? Cause I had told him to stop questioning my feelings and he picked a fight and made it about my communication, do women always share how they feel in a relationship? And do men always expect that they do no matter what?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that sounds like he's being way too pushy and controlling about you sharing everything. No one is owed every little detail, you're right to want privacy sometimes. Relationships are about trust and respect, not interrogation. I think he's overreacting big time to act like you don't care about him just cause you don't wanna talk about one thing. Women don't have to spill their guts 24/7, that's unrealistic. You should be able to talk when you want to on your own terms. He needs to respect your boundaries more instead of making it into a fight. You communicating how you feel right there by saying you don't wanna talk should be enough. Maybe say to him straight up that pressure and threats won't work, just makes you wanna share less. A good relationship is a team, not one person demanding answers all the time. Sounds like he's gotta chill and trust you more.

[Asker]

Hi thank you so much for your input and your advice , really appreciate it 💓

[Oliverlogan263]

My pleasure madamé anytime ❤️❤️🌹🌹