Caught sight of some phone messages between the guy I’m dating and his friend and they were very flirtatious us this Norman?

[Gogetemgirl]

Loads of love heart emojis and good night kisses and kissing emojis … reckons they are just good friends but says she’s one if the most beautiful women he’s ever known … shall I carry on dating him or am I wasting my time?

[DaveJord]

When Are Opposite Sex Friends a Threat to Your Relationship? Psychology Today

www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/201912/when-are-opposite-sex-friends-threat-your-relationship

I wrote a post about this article in of my own MyTakes.

www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/a70088-why-opposite-sex-friends-are-harmful-to-your-intimate-relationships

It might help and it might not. End to the day, how someone manages their opposite sex freinds can have a profound effect on your SO. Because when you are in a relationship with another person, if they start to feel that "friendship" is being threatened by a third party, they should take measure to protect the emotional bound they trying to build with you. Because trust is the foundation and corner stone of every relationship.

If you feel his actions, and behaviors with any third-party person, is a threating the bond of trust... then you need to listen to and trust your gut. The truth is you are offering this guy more, than what this other person is. I mean if she was so awesome then why is he not dating her?

Why? Because she is not offering what you are offering, and he still value in that. Confusing right? Tell me about it. Trust your gut.

[Gogetemgirl]

He’s not dating her as she turned him down few years ago

[DaveJord]

Right, but they are still friends, right? And that is affecting you relationship, right?

[HouseMoat]

Just depends on what you think of guys and girls being "just friends". It comes down to what YOU BELIEVE

[Nikki1989]

The phone is the tool of the cheater. They are a curse.

[DaveJord]

@Nikki1989 nailed it, the phone and social media.

[spartan55]

Why are you going through his phone?

[Gogetemgirl]

I didn't it was on the side so I just had a quick look whilst he was showing me a video he didn’t think I saw what I saw

[spartan55]

Sure

[Amiapowerlessman]

I thing wrong with talkkng about it