Is asking girls out a numbers game?

Question

Like some girls will reject you, and some girls will accept the date

SotiCoto · Accepted Answer

That sort of mentality is part of the feedback loop that has turned modern dating into such a fucking nightmare.

Not saying it isn't now, but it certainly shouldn't be.

Courtesy of scummy systems like Tinder, people act like they've got all the choice in the world, and consequently they won't invest anything of themselves into any of them. Everyone they see is just a drop in the ocean. Completely disposable. And they try to get into relationships with this sort of mentality... carrying the idea that if anything goes wrong, they can just ditch it and find another.

It is fucked up. But that is just the way the world is now, I guess.

Makes me glad I quit.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Yes, it is inevitable that of you ask enough girls for a date, at least a few will say yes. But work on developing confidence and losing your awkwardness, and you can get dates even if you ask only the girls who have the greatest appeal to you.

HaleyCatgirl · Accepted Answer

Well it depends if you're just asking every girl that you see maybe talk to somebody and touch some grass

Summeroflove · Answer

Yeah. Well obviously there are girls in relationships and not everyone is meant to be. Everyone is different.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I have always viewed it that way. I am not one of those guys who spends weeks or months plotting and planning only to get disappointed. I see a woman who seems interesting and single, and I cold approach. My batting average might be low, but I take enough swings that I get a lot of hits.

Novacane · Answer

YES, I always say this a girl will curve you because she doesn't like your shoes or because it was a Monday and she hates Mondays. Those are very specific things but that is just to show you that it doesn't matter she will curve you, you can be the perfect guy and still will reject you, so never take it personally and just keep trying.

virtue2332 · Answer

Everything in life can be broken down to probability so yeah. Percentage closing ratios could be applied but the data only counts for the date what's the end goal. Just a date or to try different methods and use the data to improve your skills. I help a little Girls probably will frown upon the fact that they are just another number to you? So uh good luck.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes but more a confidence and social skills game. If you are "lame", the numbers are very different than if you are your "best man".

love_conquers_lust · Answer

If you aren’t getting any bites, perhaps it’s time to reexamine the bait. As in, maybe it’s you. But you do have to cast.

^^^Inspired by @DizzyDesii. I haven’t discussed fishing this much in awhile.

RavVid · Answer

Some think so. I've known guys that ask every girl "wanna fuck?". The theory is with short cycle times they get through a lot of girls and that 1 in 100 or 200 or 500 say yes.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I had a friend that told me that he asks out every girl that looks interesting to him. He said that the worst thing they can do is say no. He got shot down a lot but went out with a lot of girls

Fuentes · Answer

It's like that for me on tinder 2 girls outta 10 are dtf without any convincing or taking them out lol

slatyb · Answer

Yes, it is. If you goal is to find a life partner, you should meet a number of possible partners before choosing.

NathanDavis · Answer

if you see anything about girls as a game... you're playing yourself... lol

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Can't you say that about everything in life?

Anonymous · Answer

It's alright if you fail a few times you'll get a girlfriend at some point. Don't let the failure stop you from getting what you want.

JacobJordan · Answer

Wasn't for me. I asked 1 girl. She said yes. Now we are married.

DextroShade · Answer

It absolutely is, even the top tier guys only have a maximum 10% success rate.

Anonymous · Answer

It pretty much is. You can do things to increase your odds but it really is just a load of trial and error and failing for no fault of your own.

Anonymous · Answer

Does that even still work? It's like cold calls. I'd hardly tKw them

serious · Answer

Yes it is.

RealMarek · Answer

Yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Totally.

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