How do I stop wanting a relationship when I’m in no condition to be in one?

[Anonymous]

No matter how hard I try to get rid of wanting to be with someone, it won’t go away. I need it to go away so I don’t get unrealistic expectations.

[Smashingdoozy]

It's natural to want a connection with someone. It probably won't go away. Just continue being realistic with yourself and only get back out there when you're really ready to.

[Asker]

I am being realistic. I reminder myself everyday how I’m not in a good place to be with anyone.

[RedInnocent68]

You can’t fight nature. Well, you can, but you inevitably lose.

[Asker]

@RedInnocent68 I’ve been doing for 31 years 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

*doing it

[RedInnocent68]

Not well. You should be doing other things as well! 😉😂

[smne35]

Never surpress the desire in you for love companionship, we all need it, I miss it so choose wisely the one you surrender your heart to

[BoopBoopBeep]

That's addressing the symptom not the illness. Why do you think you're inclined towards unrealistic expectations? And of what?

[dudeinohio]

You are human. You want a relationship, which is normal. I understand the reasons why you resist... but have you considered that you may be compatible with someone, regardless.

[Asker]

No I haven’t because that’s unrealistic.

[dudeinohio]

It's very realistic

[RedInnocent68]

No such thing as no condition to be in one. There’s never a right time for most things. You don’t stop it. It’s biology. Kitty wants milk. 😉😳

[MackBoy]

I will give an idea, that is always play games and even if someone asks for a relationship tell them you are busy with gaming and i don't have time.

[Anonymous]

At the end of the day, it's night..
Damn, I mean at the end of the day we're all humans Sash!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Told you it will eventually happen

[Asker]

I’m trying to stop these thoughts. I just have to be stronger.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Or stop resisting and accept it lol

[Joker_]

make efforts to distract yourself

[Asker]

Believe me, I try.

[Joker_]

I believe you do