How to stop focusing on finding love and wanting a boyfriend when I’m not ready for a relationship at all?

[Anonymous]

Im a hopeless romantic at heart and will fall for any decently cute funny guy I interact with once but I’m also not ready at all to date. I’m inconsistent, difficult, and get bored of guys as soon as they want to date. Not to bash myself or anything I’d say I’m pretty great but defiantly not in a good place to be anyone’s girlfriend without becoming some type of 500 days of summer (a very good movie) reenactment I tend to disconnect with in close relationships. But I’m constantly thinking about falling in love. I have hobbies and stuff but let’s say I’m going to buy a new book and I’m thinking what if I meet a guy at the book store and think about it the whole time or I just meet talk to friendly guy and suddenly I’m imagining us going on dates and confessing our mutual affections. How do I stop focusing on love when I know I’ll reject anyone who asks me out anyway?

[Guy13]

Study Organic Chem, Accounting-pure and basics, Calculus. Do NOT be intimidated.
Best way to move way beyond the wreckage. Read books NOT kindle etc. Real ones you can touch in university library 💪

[Emanon25]

Make yourself busy with good things.