Girls, Recently found out something bad about my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I found videos on his cloud of him on Webcam chat sites hitting himself in the crotch for girls. Not like one or two videos, like lots ☹️ it seems like he's into it... I think he's using that as a way to 'get off'

I haven't confronted him about it and I don't know if I will it's so awkward but also makes me really sad and angry at him.

What should I do? What would you do? Were semi serious but not like getting married soon or anything. Is this cheating?

[SueShe]

You have to confront him in a way or another because what he does is definitely not a normal behavior.

I personally would not consider his acts as cheating yet but he is on a good way to begin emotional cheating if he would be naked while doing that or if he gets pictures or other visuals from girls while he performs.

I would indeed worry that his kink/fantasy gets out of hand and that he starts something that will likely be something that could be considered emotional cheating. As soon as nudes are involved and that you are not (officially) informed by him or that you are agreeing with, approving or endorsing, then it becomes emotional cheating.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Anonymous]

Dump him. I guarantee this is not all he is doing.

[swettannie]

yeah, no. you need a better man